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I hate it here. - February 24th 2011, 02:17 AM

My mom and I fight constantly. I want it to stop, but it doesn't.

I'll be having a perfectly good day at school, I'll go home and be fine, then my mom comes home from work and I'm constantly yelling, and screaming at her to leave me alone, or to just be quiet. My mom and my brother have a really good relationship, so they'll be messing around, having fun and I'll be in the other room trying to drone them out with music. Then I get yelled at for my music being too loud. I try telling them to be quiet and I get bitched at cause I'm 'crabby', when really I'm not crabby, I'm just annoyed.

I'm incredibly jealous of my mom and brother's relationship, and how close they are. I wish I could be that close to her, but I don't trust her at all. My dad and I don't have a good relationship either. I really can't stand to be around him whatsoever.

I wanna leave this house. But I can't. I feel trapped. And I feel alone. The one thing that calms me down is my dog. But I need someone to talk to, that can actually talk back. Help?
   
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Re: I hate it here. - February 25th 2011, 01:20 AM

I know how it is when mom's and daughter's fight. as i do the same with m ymom. Have you tried having a meeting with her and just sit down and try to improve your realationship with an open mind? Here's an idea. Make up a list of things you need from your mom and have her make a list of things she needs from you and then openly discuss it calmly and control your actions etc.
My brother had a close realtionship with my mom too. i think it s a son and mom thing lol.Cause us girls get under eachothers skin a lot and we end up in a lot of cat fights.
Why can't you stand to be around your dad? Is he mean? Rude?
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Re: I hate it here. - March 2nd 2011, 10:48 PM

Dani,

It's normal for parents and children to fight. Sometimes you aren't going to see eye to eye on things. It sounds like your mom is stressed out about something. Have you tried talking to her about this? Maybe when she is calm, try talking to her about how you are feeling when she yells at you and stuff. Tell her that you wish that you had a better realtionship with her. A mom and a daughter have an undeniable bond by default. The trick is strengthening it. It's completely possible. Maybe do things with her once in a while. Help her cook dinner, or go run errands with her. I bet she would appreaciate the help, and enjoy the company.

Why don't you trust her? Trust is a huge thing when it comes to parents. I had a similar problem with my mom. Parents make mistakes, and sometimes that can break our trust. You should try to get that go a little bit, and get to know your mom a bit better. If you feel comfortable, you can talk to her about your trust issues with her.

Dogs are great for comfort, but you're right! You need someone who talks back. You need someone to share their opinions with you, and feedback. Is there anyone at school that you want to get closer to? Maybe you can join a club and get to know people with the same interests as you. I feel that that helps rather well when trying to make friends. And if you ever need me, you can PM me. I talk back

It's understandable that you're feeling frustrated by this. Anyone would. You have a right to feel like this. Try to take some stress off by doing things that make you happy. You might do well by getting out of the house a bit more. This will allow for you to get a breath of fresh air, in terms of scenery, and mood.

I really hope this helped! Hang in there!<3
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Re: I hate it here. - March 2nd 2011, 10:52 PM

hey i know how u feel i fight constantly with my step mom and my sis and her get along but and i know ur only 15 and you got 3 more yrs till u move out try taliking with a couselor maybe thats wat i did and even thou me and my step mom still fight i have someone to vent to after and if u ever want to talk just pm i know wat ur going throu it wont be easy




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