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my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 11:15 AM

some friday night my mum has to do the netball take and my little sister dont like being home alone i always get left home alone i like it it does not phase me one bit, and my little sister hates it, so then it means that i end up arguing iwth my little sister because i wana go out, and its not fair on to me to stay in when my little sister has the option of going with my mum or putting up with being home alone for 40 minuets, and she knows i will have my mobile with me, but why should have to stay in my life not hers, i have to go out everyday, fridays my day where i can buy alcohol and drink it, usually home alone, and undisturbed. but my little sister refuses to let me out, just coz she dont wana be home alone, it does my head in shes nearly 13! and then she makes a fuss, and sometimes gets her own way. other fridays its fine coz my mum does not the netball take my other sisters friends mum does the netball take. grrrrrr so annoying. i dont care what my little sister says i need to buy some booze she has been given two options stay here and be home alone for 40 minuets or go with my mum and not be anywhere alone and most likely go to my grandma and grandpas house and get to have sweets, and tidy the dolls house(nice big wodden one that was made by aunt for me) and get to drink lots of fizzy drinks, and do some painting with my grandmas posh paints). but she wont choose. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr grrrr grrrr grrrrrrr grrrrrr grrrrrrr grrrrrrrrrrr my mum says no matter what happens i can go out but if go out and leave my sister home alone i will feel bad for leaving home alone because she dont like it and get scared. grrrrrrrrrr
   
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Re: my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 11:19 AM

Dont let her dictate your life
Because if she knows u wont go out to upset her
She'll abuse that fact
Maybe try going out without telling her only for like 5mins ata time
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Re: my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 11:23 AM


Well I am not sure where you live or what your local laws are. But here in California it is illegal to let anyone under the age of fourteen stay by there self at home.
I think it is kind of sad that you rather go out and drink then stay home with your sister who is clearly terrified to stay by herself. She is your family and she needs you and all you can think about is going out for a drink? Do you live at home or have you been called over to babysit? If you live at home, then I see this as perfectly fair, you live in your moms house then you can help out when she needs you too. But if you do not live at home then tell your mom you can not baby sit for the night if you must.




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Re: my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 12:03 PM

I live at home, but i would not be going out and drinking just going to the shop buying it then comming home and drinking it at home.
   
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Re: my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 12:05 PM

Either way, it makes me a little sad that alcohol is more of a priority to you then the well being of your sister. Sometimes you just have to put things into perspective.




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Re: my sister n my mum - January 9th 2009, 03:26 PM

i know but i was staying home alone at 12 i dont see why my sister cant fourty minuets. oh well i got the house to myself and i got my boooze.
   
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