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Advice for me to give my friend please.. - March 3rd 2009, 05:37 PM

My friend Casey liked this guy for a VERY long time.. (Bobby).. He knew that she liked him but he didnt like her.. not in the slightest... yet she was completely gaga over him... until this other guy came around... (Chris)... she started liking him too.. but not nearly as much as she like Bobby... After a while Chris started to like her as well and they got close.. not quite going out but not quite friends either...

When Bobby found out Casey liked Chris.. Bobby started teasing her saying he has always liked her and has always wanted her... And she doesnt know what to do.. She still likes Bobby more than she likes Chris...

I know Bobby is just joking but Casey thinks hes for real and is thinking of telling Chris to back off cause she still likes Bobby.. And she wont listen to anyone when they try to tell her Bobby doesnt really like her and hes just messing around..

Ive tried to talk to Bobby and tried to tell him whats been ging through Caseys mind.. but he keeps saying.. "Im only joking around..."

I dont wanna see her hurt and i dont want Bobby to continue running her life like this.. She deserves so much more... i just dont know what to say to show her whats really going on with out hurting her..


Please give me advice.. I feel so helpless... Please.. =)
   
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Re: Advice for me to give my friend please.. - March 3rd 2009, 05:42 PM

I think you need to try and talk to this Bobby guy again, explain very clearly to him what's going on, and why you think he should leave her alone. Also try and talk to your friend, she knows her and Chris could have a relationship, and if she's gotten close to him, surely he means something to her, and she shouldn't throw that away.
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Re: Advice for me to give my friend please.. - March 3rd 2009, 09:32 PM

Hi there Brittany,

I know you said you've tried talking to Bobby already and that he told you that it's a joke, but you need to let him know that your friend isn't taking it as a joke. He needs to let her know that he is just goofing around. It will mean a lot more coming from him. If he doesn't tell her, then you should still do your best to let her know that he told you it was a joke and that she should not take what he's saying seriously.

It will be tough for her if she doesn't listen to you or Bobby, but she may need to learn this on her own. I really hope she believes you.

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