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i hate regrets - March 24th 2011, 11:04 PM

so i been thinking i regret telling my mom to stay out of my life i miss her so much but atm i dont know what the right thing is anymore i was taken away from her wen i was lil she was given visitation but rarly used it
she would tell me she would be there but she never showed up im scared i will end up hurt like always i have no contact with her after our argument ending with me saying stay out of my life now i regret every moment of it
i wish i could change this but i know i cant and i really want her to hold me like when i was little and she was still with us my parents were never marred my dad ended up marring my step mom when i was in the 5th grade
after that my mom left for good she never came to see us now she wont ever be in my life and its all my fault but i want her back and idk if thats the right thing after all she hurt me more than once but so many times




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Re: i hate regrets - March 25th 2011, 01:12 AM

Coco,

I'm really sorry about your mom. Maybe you can talk to her about this. Apologize to her. Make amends with her. While your doing this tell her the fears that you have with her being in your life. It's understandable that you want her back in your life but you are scared. She is your mom and forever will be, but at the same time, she has hurt you in the past. I think that writing a letter would be good. Can you do that? In the letter explain to her everything you are feeling about the situation. Even if the letter does no good, or doesn't make a difference, maybe treat it as getting closure until you're older and things have changed. I think that it's great that you are trying to better your relationship with her, and it's completely doable. Hang in there. I know it's tough. <3


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