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family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 01:06 AM

so,my family started therapy today
now me,my sister(older nd younger) nd my mother all hav our own therapists
my parnts(my father nd mother)decided we need to do family therapy
my older sister is leaving in august for MSU(starts college then)
i know when she leaves everything is going to fall apart...again
i said that today in our first session
i also said i see no point in eve doing the family therapy thing,i dnt think its going to help
my mothers therapist is in charge of this family therapy thing
she asked all of us if we'd b willing to do a by-monthly session
everyone,cept me,said yes
she like attacked me nd asked y i wouldnt b willing to do tht
i tld her the truth,i c no point in this nd i didnt even want to do it,i know whts gonna happen when my older sister leaves nd no one cn stop it from happening
i dnt want to go to the next session,nor any other sessions cept my own with my therapist
i dnt like being singled out like that,makes me feel unsafe nd uncomfortable
what should i do?????


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Re: family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 01:10 AM

Im sorry things are falling apart for you. Im not sure what to do but I would say just tell them that until they get it. Sorry Im not much help






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Re: family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 01:46 AM

im gonna do tht
i jus dnt wnt to b attacked whn i do


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Re: family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 03:39 AM

Oh my gosh, my mom made me do family therapy when my dad died. I had a negative feeling about it too. I got used to it, considering I had to do it for about three months. I really regret some of it though, you know not taking it seriously. I would just go with an open mind, no hard feeling against anyone. Also, just be strong for your family
Things will work out if you help your family make them work.
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Re: family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 04:00 AM

I'd tell my parents if I were you that you don't feel like going, and you don't see how it will help. I had to do that with a therapist once because the one they were going to give me I just didn't like him and they were willing to switch me therapists. So possibly you'll have to talk to your parents.


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Re: family therapy....already dont like it...nd only gone once.... - March 5th 2009, 09:28 PM

Agree to take the session. I don't see why not the therapist is a unbiased, third party, professional who is going to open-mindedly look at all sides of your families challenges.
   
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