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Unhappy What did I do to deserve this? - April 8th 2011, 03:42 AM

So, this year hasn't been the best for me, there's been a whole lot of drama between friends and such (I'm in college, btw). Any who, just when I thought everything was getting better, one of my friends goes and pretty much destroys that. So, said friend has a deviantart account, where she keeps a public journal and she knows I know her account cause I've made comments about the name before. I went on there today to read her new post which turned out to be about her ranting about all the bad stuff, but then the topic turns to me and about how she thinks I'm all impulsive with my life decisions and what I do. Like, I came out as being transgender back in october, and said friend (who just so happens to be trans too, but hasn't told me) says she doesn't believe me. She also thinks I switched my major to dental care because I went to the dentist.
Like, there are things that have happened in my past that have caused me to make these choices, and now I feel like I have to justify everything in my life to her. After I read that article, it made me fell sick to the point where I broke down into tears. I trusted this person and felt so comfortable telling them so much about myself and now I feel betrayed by them. I don't know what to do, and now I feel extremely depressed and like I have to be a dorm mat to this person so they won't blast me on the internet again. I just kinda wish I didn't have to have friends and could just wake up, go to class, do homework, and sleep. That would cause so few problems in my life.

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Re: What did I do to deserve this? - April 8th 2011, 06:15 AM

Hey there,

Your friend was completely in the wrong for doing this. Truthfully, you don't have to justify these things to her. You shouldn't have to. She posted things about you online. Where those might be her feelings, she did it in a terrible way. She should also trust you when you tell her something. You were friends, and with any friendship there needs to be trust. I couldn't have trust in her after what she did. I think you might need to just break the friendship off with her. I know it might be hard, but she clearly is not a good friend. There are other people who can treat you how you deserved to be treated. It's best to weed out the bad flowers before they eat away at everything else. Take care.<3


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Re: What did I do to deserve this? - April 8th 2011, 08:57 PM

try telling her how you feel about this and try to sort out the problem/problems you have atm and work from there i had a problem like that and i coudent sort it out coz they woudent talk to me so talk to her while you have the chance


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