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Question Please Help ! - April 13th 2011, 11:55 PM

Okay , I Was Wondering If Any Of You Ever Had Parents Who Were Dating Someone You Were Not Comfortable With ? Well .. My Mom Is And Its Really Irritating Because She Was Like My BESTFRIEND , And I Thought I Could Tell Her Anything . But Since This New Guy Came Around , She Is So Different . Like She Doesn`t Care Anymore . I Just Want Help With How To Deal With The Situation . SO Yeah ? ;|
   
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Re: Please Help ! - April 14th 2011, 12:06 AM

Alexis,

First of all, welcome to Teen Help!

I have been through something similar. My mom met this guy and started dating. It seemed like she forgot the whole world, and only focused on him. She changed. But you have to understand that when people start dating, they are happy because it's new and exciting. Your mom probably isn't trying to act different, she is probably just really happy that she found someone. Things seem to go really good when there is a new person in their lives. It's possible that your mom isn't seeing how her new relationship is affecting you. It isn't that she is trying to do wrong by you. I think you should talk to her about your feelings for the present situation. Tell her that you miss her, and that you feel as though she is different since she has started dating this guy. Explain to her that you don't feel like you are able to tell her anything anymore. It might make her stop and think "Oh, she's right, I have been a little "gone" lately." After that, give her time to correct the situation. If things still don't change, talk to her again. Give her examples of how she has changed. You could say something like "I feel like you used to ___, and now you are doing ____." It's hard on children when their parents start dating other people. A flood of emotions comes over you. Just talk to her. She seems like a really supportive parent if you can tell her anything. She'll understand.


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Re: Please Help ! - April 14th 2011, 12:12 AM

Yeah , I Understand ..
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iCried When I Read This , & I Do Want Her To Be Happy .. I Just Don`t Want Her To Block Me Out You Know ? ( :
   
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Re: Please Help ! - April 21st 2011, 02:51 PM

I was wondering, maybe you should just have a talk with her. Considering that you two are close, I think some good will come off it. Try it
   
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Re: Please Help ! - May 3rd 2011, 07:44 PM

we have to frist really talk about every thing that is going on in your life with your mother and here new man. then start working on it thank you evangelist pastor susie houston.
   
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