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Question i dont feel close to my brother , im scared! - April 18th 2011, 06:47 PM

he always says im cocky and if he hears one side of an argument he will believe that person over me , his sister.
we have never been close like hugging i dont think we have ever said "i love you" to each other, i just want to feel like i am his sister and he is my brother.
but i dont know how that is going to happen, we argue alot, he hasnt physically hurt me, though he calls me cocky and chooses that as an argument and a reason to hate me or not like.
also, if i am having a conversation with , say, my little brother , he would 'but' in and say something that is not true, when he doesn't know the full story, then i would tell him to "shutup" or to "stay out of it, you don't need to say anything" he would just keep talking and make up some stupid argument, then my mum would tell me to "shutup" and "stop causing arguments", when if he didn't say anything it would never of happened or came up, my mum usually chooses his side in an argument, as if he is her favorioute.
just don't know what to do, please help?
   
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Re: i dont feel close to my brother , im scared! - April 23rd 2011, 03:24 PM

Maybe you should try and talk to your mum, when your brother isn't there, and tell her how you feel about it. She may not even notice that she is favouring your brother.

He might grow out of it, or he may just like annoying you (little brothers are like that). Have you told him that you don't like the way he acts?


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