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I can't take it. - March 7th 2009, 02:08 AM

It started because a night out had ended badly, all I wanted was to go home, cry, and forget everything. But then she had to come and force me to tell her what happened. She got pissed when I told her I didn't want to talk about it. I told her to leave me alone but she came in my room and tore off the covers. She wouldn't let me sleep unless I told her. Then she had the nerve to tell me it was because my friends were all plotting against me and this was somehow related to her as well. She said "they" where trying to get to her through me. She said I was a fucking idiot for not believing her. I can't take this anymore, I need someone to talk to, anyone. Why can't she just be a proper mum and leave me alone? I know it's not her fault but I just can't deal with her paranoia anymore.
   
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Re: I can't take it. - March 7th 2009, 02:36 AM

To me, it sounds like your mom might have some kind of phsycological issue.... my mom does stuff kinda simmilar (though not as extream usually) and she has borderline personality disorder... Any time you wanna talk PM me! i'm always here to help!!
   
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Re: I can't take it. - March 7th 2009, 04:18 PM

Hey Helen,

It sounds to me like your mom might need a little bit of help? From your post I gather she has been diagnosed with something or she needs to be. I know it's hard to take, even though it might not be her fault. For now, why don't you get away for the weekend? Sleep over at someone else's house? Relax and take a few days for yourself, away from your mom. Just so you can ground yourself and maybe think about a new step to take. You are allowed to think of yourself for a bit. You need to make sure you're ok. Before anyone else sometimes. As for your mom, have you talked to your doctor about this? Maybe he can recommend something for your mom. I know, sometimes, they can arrange house calls, where someone stops by and takes care of things for your mom or takes care of you mom directly. These are just a few things, your doctor probably has many more things he/she could do. I don't know what your mom has, if anything. But, talking to your doctor might help here. Take care of yourself. If you need anything, I'm only a PM away.

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Re: I can't take it. - March 9th 2009, 07:57 AM

Helen.

it sounds to me that your mom sometimes doesnt understand how it feels like to be a teenager... sometimes parents dont understand that sometimes they just need to leave a few kind understanding words rather than say harsh stuff , and that as you probably understand, makes things worse . however, just remember that deep down inside, she's still your mom and truly and deeply loves you. sometimes parents just show love and care the wrong way.

you'll have to talk to her one of these days in a heart-to-heart manner to resolve all this.. miscommunication is a common thing in families nowdays. but i think we can help you get through this

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