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Question Family Fued - April 27th 2011, 01:58 AM

I kinda need to vent and write down my thoughts.

Well I have an aunt who is trying to get on the bad side of all of my family. She is saying bad things about my other aunt and uncle, whose farm burnt down on Christmas, saying that they didn't pay to have their barn rebuilt and they had my grandpa pay for it all, and they deserve to know what it's like to be in debt, etc. etc.. Just saying bad things about everyone in her family. She even said she wanted to start a family feud.

But the entire time she was arguing and fighting with everyone, she was nothing but close, nice, and friendly with me. She found me a good job, constantly is asking me how I'm doing, and she was supporting me throughout all of my depression when my mom wasn't there for me. She was cheering me on for everyday I went without suicidal thoughts, and saying she was my number one fan basically.

I'm just wondering how she can be like this. Bad mouthing my other aunts and uncles (and I think my dad once), but whenever I'm around she's probably the nicest person I know. Is she just trying to get me to be on her side through everything and have a "cohort" or something?


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Re: Family Fued - April 27th 2011, 02:23 AM

Ashley,

I don't really know what your aunts intentions are, but what she is doing is immature. Do you know why she is bad mouthing your family like that? She might genuinely like you, or might be trying to get on your good side. If you want to know, ask her about it. But I suggest that you stay out of the drama the best you can. You don't want to be forced with the decision to take sides, so I would say to just live your life like you have been. And let the adults handle their business. It might help to tell to tell your aunt that you don't like her bad mouthing your family members in your presence. Best of luck! <3


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Re: Family Fued - April 27th 2011, 02:42 AM

I think she was bad mouthing everyone, because she just wants attention. It seemed that everyone was having something big happening in their life (my family was moving, my aunt and uncle's barn burnt down, etc.) and she was having nothing big happening. That's my guess.

I'll ask her about it at our next family get together, or via Facebook, so I can get a straight answer. I really don't want to get into a family feud. I love all my family and I pray this will all blow over soon
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