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Angry What;s wrong with him - March 7th 2009, 09:23 PM

He was my friend till we moved to middle school. In elementary (6th grade) he always teased ne always tried to find a way to talkto me, asked for my phone number, and always sat at the same group or table as me he thought I was the only down to earth girl. Now in the 7th grade the first day he always stares at me, he blew me off, he ignores me, he only talks about homework with me but that's rarely, now he hangs otu with sophmores and is always teasing and all that other stuff with this other gilr but she's a sophmore. He also deleted my phone number. I didn't like like him last year, because I thought he was a BFF, now I like him.... alot and I thought he would be the same person, turns out he's not. I feel as if my life will get worse. Please... any advice would be great. And has this ever happened to you whether it was the transition from elementary to middle or middle to high school? I hate my life.
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Re: What;s wrong with him - March 8th 2009, 12:45 AM

Don't hate your life just case he's done a 180 alot of people I used to know in middle school did a complete personality overhaul the minute they moved into the higher grade. (I moved between my elementary school and middle school grades, so i can't say about that transition.) He's either going to stick with this new face he's trying on, or he might come back to you and later show himself to not have changed as much as you think he has. Either way, if he doesn't treat you like you're worth anything I would suggest trying to get over him...but not until you at least try talking; ask why he's suddenly become this different person. Hell, for all you know he still likes you. You won't know till you ask. You've got nothing to lose here, as you'll still have plenty of friends to make (and better guys to like, if you want) no matter what he says. Hope this helps, PM me if you wanna talk


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Re: What;s wrong with him - March 8th 2009, 04:32 PM

Hi there,

I agree with Marissa. You should not hate your life because of this guy! He's not worth it if he's blowing you off like this and ignoring you. He's probably just acting out and changing to try and impress people, which is never a good thing.

You deserve a lot better than this guy. Just be yourself, start talking to some new people, and meet new friends who will treat you right. There are plenty of other guys out there. I know this is hurting right now, but try not to let his change affect you too much.

I hope you start feeling better.


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Re: What;s wrong with him - March 9th 2009, 07:38 AM

hey you.

firstly, my advice is that people change frmo time to time. but , among REAL friends, the part of them that cares and loves you for who you truly are never changes. Apparently this person isnt a real friend. I'm definitely sure that you will find people around you who will care for you and like you for who you trly are.. these are the REAL true friends.

and yes, this has happened before, pretty often. however, i'm sure that there's a lot of people who you know who are definitely true friends, inside and out.

and besides that,alwayss remember you've got us to support you, no matter what it takes

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