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Should I go on holidays with them? - May 10th 2011, 12:04 PM

Last October I went on holidays with two of my friends to a caravan. I really enjoyed it. The only thing I didn't enjoy was the caravan being freezing cold and me getting too drunk and hitting my head. This time we're going in July so it'll be warm and I won't get too drunk.

Problem is another friend of ours is coming, Daffyd. I like Daffyd and I like the people I went with last time it's just Daffyd and and my other friend argue constantly :| They never argue about anything nasty, it's just childish bickering. They could disagree over the slightest thing and it would turn into an argument.

I don't know if I could stick being in a caravan with them for a week bickering.

I've told them to stop bickering before but they just can't not disagree with eachother. They're too similar and neither of them backs down from an argument.

They ARE friends but can't be in a room with eachother for too long. They're like an old married couple.


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Re: Should I go on holidays with them? - May 10th 2011, 12:27 PM

I'd go and I wouldn't let them ruin the fun. Tell them beforehand that you're all going to have fun and caravans aren't the biggest things to be in so if they could stop their arguing for a few days, you'd really appreciate it. If they do argue, tell them to take it else where or leave till it's over.

You don't want to miss out on what could possibly be a fun holiday because of two peoples childish behaviour.
   
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Re: Should I go on holidays with them? - May 10th 2011, 12:43 PM

Thanks Our other friend Angharad will be there anyway so if they do act like that I could go somewhere with her. At times them arguing can be amusing because they get so annoyed. It's only amusing when I'm with them for 5 minutes though.


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Re: Should I go on holidays with them? - May 11th 2011, 01:19 AM

I am with Charlie on this. You definitely should go. I know it's annoying to have your friends bicker, but maybe when they do that you can find something else to do? Either that or don't let them ruin your fun. Definitely don't let them determine whether or not you do on your trip. This trip sounds like it will be better anyways because the weather will be nicer, and you'll be drinking in moderation. Therefore, why not go? You can definitely go off with your other friend that will be there. I think that will be good. Let those too bicker, while you and your other friend go explore or something cool like that. The two that fight are only small factors. As long as you're able to sort of tune them out and do your own thing, I think that it's fine.


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