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My group of friends dont get on tbh.. - May 29th 2011, 08:05 PM

In our group, theres me, Ze,La, and Co
Its a bit confusing because..
I love them all to bits, even though C has been pissing me off alot the last few months...
Anyway, La, doesn't like Co, but Ze likes Co and so do i.
I love Ze and La, they're my best friends, me and Co used to be like inseperable, we told each other everythinggggg! But i'd been going out with this lad, and when we broke up, i couldn't tell her anything about it like best mates should, i felt i couldn't, even though i wanted to?
Co is drifting towards another group, i know this happens, its just life, but i can tell she wants to go, but she wont. At lunch she doesn't participate in conversations. La said to me she doesn't care about her and hopes she goes soon.
Me and Co NEVER go out, like ever, because whenever we do, she looks bored, she says shes not but she looks it - we went to see a film a few months ago, yep months, and throughout, she looked blank towards it, but at the end she stood up and was like ah i loved that, this kind of thing has happened on several occasions!
Our group aren't close, and i hate it, i really want us to all love each other, and just be close matesIm in the middle, i love them all tbh, but Ze and Co dont really get on, and La really doesn't like Co
I don't really know why iim posting this, i just needed to let it out i suppose..
Summers coming up, and i don't know, i just really want us to hang out and stuff but ugh man.


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Re: My group of friends dont get on tbh.. - May 29th 2011, 09:51 PM

Aww, I know what you mean
Maybe Co is enjoying it more than you think, but she doesn't show it like other people do. People often look kinda blank at the cinema, or maybe she just likes being quite.
Try making an effort to talk to Co, just about any random nonsense if you want. It might help you become closer again.
As for La not liking Co.. is it because she feels she's drifting away from you guys? Maybe trying to include her as much as you can would help but. But remember it's not your fault if she decides she wants to spend more time with other friends.
It sounds like you have some great friends, so just smile and remember even if you don't all sit together at lunch, you can still be friends.
   
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Re: My group of friends dont get on tbh.. - May 29th 2011, 11:37 PM

Me and La are really close tbh! We go out all the time and everything. Its just were all soo differen't!

Me; I'd consider myself very mature for my age, not a follower, not a chav, not one of the stupid little girls at my school who begs to be dumb, i am interested in lads, hair, makeup etc.

La; Mature, Smart, some would say 'geeky', not fussed about hair, make up, lads, not a follower

Co; I wouldn't say mature :P, chav, follower.

Ze; Not really immature, but not particulaly* mature, interested in hair, make up, lads, follower and chav as well tbh..

We're all so differen't, so its hard to do things together :/


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