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I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 5th 2011, 01:51 AM

The one girl that is supposed to be my best friend, who I've known since I was nine years old, suddenly decides that a bunch of fucking potsmokers are more fun to be around than I am.

Then she tries to come up with excuses like "well you don't seem to care about me anymore." and a bunch of guys who just want in her pants do actually give two shits?! That's a good one!

I'm so sick of crying over this, seriously. The only girl that knows everything about me and she isn't even that any more. She says that she doesn't have any words. Are you kidding me?!

She's been talking behind my back, telling other girls that I don't care any more, and then using their agreement as a way to validate what she's telling me. I don't know those girls, they don't know me, she has no right to talk to them about our friendship.

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re: I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 6th 2011, 01:46 AM

I'm sorry hon, sounds like she's just lost her way right now. You're just going to have to wait for her to find her way back I know how hard that has to be Don't lose hope for her; chances are, she's going to need you back. You're a strong girl Maddie, you can do this.


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re: I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 6th 2011, 03:42 PM

my best freind is going of with another group of freinds as well so i know exacly how u feel coz now my best freind turns out 2 be a backstabbing fuckin bitch maybe we can both give them another chance together
   
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re: I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 6th 2011, 05:14 PM

Maybe there is some miscommunication going on in this friendship, and she is coping with it by talking crap about you to all your other friends. It's an immature thing, but it happens. I would suggest talking to her. When you have this talk, tell her WHY you don't think she cares about you, and ask her WHY she doesn't think you care. Then suggest ways that will show your care for her more and vice versa. Friendships are a two way street. While you might not understand why she thinks you don't care, she might not understand why you think she doesn't care. If she knows everything about you, then surely this is a good friend of yours, and is worth keeping around if you can work stuff out. Just communicate with her. It's going to be hard, but you can do it. :]


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re: I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 6th 2011, 06:57 PM

Thank you guys...sorry for all the language:P. Obviously I swear when I'm mad...

We talked, she told me that she just has so much fun with her other friends and I asked her if that was what she had chosen then and we talked about that so now we're supposed to hang out this week. I guess we'll see how this goes...

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re: I cannot f***ing deal with this right now. - June 6th 2011, 07:01 PM

It's alright to swear when you're mad :]
Let us know how things go :]


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