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My family thinks I got married. - July 3rd 2011, 10:46 PM

Yesterday, My soon to be husband was supposed to have worked for my dad, but didn't get to because we tried to text him and call him and he never get get the texted or calls so he automactially thought we wasn't going to work for him, when we were really trying to give me an answer to whether we were going to help me or not. Anyways, While he was going to be down there working I was going to hang out with his mom and my uncles, but instead we both ended up staying. My dad didn't even show up at the dinner my uncle's and mom was going to have.

On friday, I was went to the court house to see how much the marriage liences were and they ended up being 94 dollars but if we go to marriage thearpy it would knock 60 dollars off so when we have a wedding it wouldn't be so much, it would only be 34. When I tried talking to my family about it, they acted like that didn't believe us at all.

When I was down there I got a call getting cussed out by my cousin because my mom's family thinks we went down there to have a marriage ceramony or got our marriage liences (or both) when we really went down there to visit and friday night when my aunt and nanny showed up we were trying to explain what are plans were going to be because my uncle is a preacher, and has the liences to give a ceramony and the do the marriage therapy, but we wasn't going to do the ceramony at all, and had no plans too.

When we got back yesterday evening from the dinner my dad's mom and everyone has, we got cussed and yelled at. Apparently everyone thinks I am that low down to get married behind there backs at my uncle's house. It hurts me so much that they think I would do such a thing. Now everyone is hurt at me and pissed off at me for no reason whatsoever. I am disowned by my mom's family. My mom don't believe I did such a thing. My nanny was the first one to show up at my house,and she was yelling,screaming and crying, well after a few minutes she started to calm down and believe us, but all of the sudden she started up again after my aunt pulled up at my house screaming and yelling as well. My mom wasn't home yet and when she got home my aunt pulled her away and told her not to speak or talk to me. and the wierd part about it was that when my mom walked in the house she wasn't crying or anything and acted like she was going along with it.

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Re: My family thinks I got married. - July 4th 2011, 01:59 AM

Hi Tiffany. I'm 18 so I don't have much experience with marriage. But things like this when your family believe something that is not true happens all the time. You tried to tell your family the truth about how you guys aren't married yet and they chose not to listen.

Don't get so offended by this, you as a person tried your best to explain your self and still your family doesn't believe you. Don't let this get to you, only you know the truth about this and if your family doesn't want to listen; then why try? Let your family have their own suspicions while you and your fiance'e knows the truth. Eventually though your family will realize the truth but for now, let them believe what they want to believe. You don't deserve this right now, your about to be married and this stress from your family is uncalled for.

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