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Angry thought we were friends - July 7th 2011, 05:47 PM

Some of you may remember me making a thread on here about a girl who treated me like complete crap? Well, yes it is the same person again. I know, if I have to make two threads about her then it obviously means something. Just hear me out.
So when I was at school, one of the girls was complaining. It wasn't the humourous type either, it was the 'i hate the world so know I'm going to take it out on you and make you feel like shit' type. So I just made an offhand comment, no intention of an insult, just something offhand and casual. It was almost an incredibly lame joke. But she decided to be a complete bitch about it, and in her mood I wasn't surprised.
I know I probably shouldn't have said anything at all, and maybe if I didn't then none of this would've happened. But it was supposed to be something casual, almost friendly and in a jokingly manner.
So then later on the evening, I receive a couple of texts asking whats going on. So I check facebook, and find a status update where two girls are saying shit about me. Like being 'too derro for life' and 'some asian trying to tell me about my social life... shit is so fucked'. Honestly, I couldn't give a rat's ass about it, they are entitled to their own opinion and the only acknowledgement I have decided to give was a simple eye rolling.
What did strike a nerve was that the girl who i thought was my friend (and the same one from the last post) had liked ALL the insults and even contributed. It's that kind of behaviour that suggests that the way she acts towards me at school is incredibly fake. I know, it should be a no-brainer. But thoughts anyone?


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Re: thought we were friends - July 8th 2011, 06:13 AM

Hey Kim

you know, you're right about this girl being totally fake towards you. that is so wrong of her. when you dont like someone, you shouldn't pretend to be someone's friend. and since you know about the facebook remarks, it's going to be tough talking to her sweetly and all. but you know, i think she meant for you to read that. so just start hanging out with people who you can really trust, someone who is your friend. avoid this girl for a bit. and also, i love your attitude in dealing with those meanies....really it's a great way to get through this.
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Re: thought we were friends - July 9th 2011, 03:59 PM

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Hey Kim

you know, you're right about this girl being totally fake towards you. that is so wrong of her. when you dont like someone, you shouldn't pretend to be someone's friend. and since you know about the facebook remarks, it's going to be tough talking to her sweetly and all. but you know, i think she meant for you to read that. so just start hanging out with people who you can really trust, someone who is your friend. avoid this girl for a bit. and also, i love your attitude in dealing with those meanies....really it's a great way to get through this.
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Re: thought we were friends - July 9th 2011, 04:13 PM

I agree with EnriqueFan. She is being totally two-faced, especially if she was contributing to the insults. I would be careful if I were you.

It's up to you whether or not you want to confront her about it/talk to her and tell her your feelings. But I would advise you not to continue striving to be her friend. She's not worth it <3
   
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