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I'm sick of dumb shit! - July 24th 2011, 08:08 PM

Ok, I went to go eat at my nanny's house. She was in bed asleep an my uncles were watching tv and eating...well after while of laughing and joking around my uncle starts his bullcrap and talking about how much of an "asshole" my fiance' is becoming. My uncle says I started being stuck up and everyone has been talking about how much I've "changed' and crap. Well, this all started last week when my cousin asked for a cigarette and we both told her no because we had to save and make that pack last for about two or three days.

I had already gave her one a few hours earlier and that would be the second one she had asked for. but I give her cigarettes all the time and she gives me cigarettes, and she has told me no before when I asked for a cigarette from her because she said she was trying to make that pack last until she got more money, but if I tell her no everyone plays a "pity trip" and makes me feel guilty for telling her no and I'm automactially "stuck up" and "my fiance' is making me act this way" and to be honest with you....my fiance' hasn't changed and either have I. and its not just telling her no about getting a cigarette from me.....its not just about telling her no sometimes about a cigarette, its also about barrowing my car or something....its really starting to piss me off.
   
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Re: I'm sick of dumb shit! - July 24th 2011, 11:23 PM

Even though you didn't do anything wrong, I would still talk to your cousin. Clarify why you couldn't give her a cigarette the second time she asked. If your uncle (or any family member other than your cousin) uses that as an example again, say something like, "I talked to my cousin about it, and everything's okay now, so I would appreciate it if you dropped the subject."

If your cousin is still angry at you, and your uncle (or any family member) continues to talk about what happened, just say, "This is between me and my cousin, so I would appreciate it if you minded your own business."





   
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Re: I'm sick of dumb shit! - July 25th 2011, 12:33 AM

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Even though you didn't do anything wrong, I would still talk to your cousin. Clarify why you couldn't give her a cigarette the second time she asked. If your uncle (or any family member other than your cousin) uses that as an example again, say something like, "I talked to my cousin about it, and everything's okay now, so I would appreciate it if you dropped the subject."


If your cousin is still angry at you, and your uncle (or any family member) continues to talk about what happened, just say, "This is between me and my cousin, so I would appreciate it if you minded your own business."
I did clarify why I didn't give another one....its just that she don't except the word " no" and starts that "poor pitiful me" crap
   
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