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my mum. - July 26th 2011, 09:19 PM

Hi, I was in my mums room earlier looking for the nail clipperrs and in her draw there was a little bag with white powder inside, some of it was stuck together... it looked like cocaine...
My friends ( Callum and Dom) knocked on for me just as I was putting it away so I went out and talked to them about it, Callum wasn't to botherd but Dom was like "are you okay?".... I text my mum and asked her if it was Cokaine, she phoned me and sounded really defenesive saying "why? what did you find? where have you been?" and that made me really suspicious... I asked her again "and she just said " do I look like a crack head" and put the phone down. She text me "Its for my diet, you mix it with the food" but she isnt on a diet...
She is lying to me and Im pretty sure its Coke'....

I dont know what to do...
   
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Re: my mum. - July 27th 2011, 04:08 AM

Troubling situation. I had a situation similair when I found out my mom may have been smoking marajuana (I'm still unclear though...)

Now, as I said I'm still unclear. The reason was I adressed it and she either collects rare plant leaves (A hobby I never knew about) or she is on drugs. In the end it's none of MY buisness how SHE spends her life. She didn't smoke it when she was pregnant so to be honest I couldn't care.

You asked her, either it's the truth and it all was a misunderstanding or she lied to your face. If she did lie to you, she obviously doesn't want you to know and it's not your problem.

Unless she is high/violent around you, at which time it DOES concern you, I would ignore it. However, just because she doesn't look like a "Crack head" doesn't mean she isn't smoking it. I know people who are the nicest old people around and they drink drugged tea. I mean although I am 100% against drugs you cannot be against people who use them. Just because nice people can do drugs, doesn't mean you should.

If you don't feel I posted enough help, or you have any more questions, feel free to PM me or even use this thread. Good luck.

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Re: my mum. - July 27th 2011, 10:48 AM

im not against drugs to be honest i like drugs... but i'd perfer to know if she was using them.
   
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Re: my mum. - July 27th 2011, 03:41 PM

Well to be honest it's none of your buisness. As long as she is not being abusive it isn't your concern. It's her life to lose. I mean it's normal to be concerned, but if she lied to your there isn't much you can do.

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