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Exclamation He makes me wanna cut.. - August 3rd 2011, 03:44 AM

so today one of my best friends made me cry harder then I have cried in a long time. He basically told me to get out of his life, but for no apparent reason! As if I dint have problems trusting people before; this takes my trust issues to a whole new level.

So I basically have already cut once tonight. I want to keep doing it. Maybe if he sees them he will see how much he hurt me.

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Re: He makes me wanna cut.. - August 3rd 2011, 03:55 AM

like you i've lost a great friend in the past it hurt a lot and i tried to forget it. it worked but i understand it isnt easy. the best i could say is try not let it dwell on you. if you ever need to talk about it feel free to PM me. im here for you.


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Re: He makes me wanna cut.. - August 3rd 2011, 01:09 PM

Why put yourself through suffering because of him? If he isn't willing to be a good friend and stick around, that's his loss. You don't have to suffer because of his decision. Down the road, the two of you may be able to talk and work everything out, but for now, just try to look forward to meeting new people and having new experiences. Show him the friend he's going to be missing.
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Re: He makes me wanna cut.. - August 3rd 2011, 04:03 PM

I can relate to this, but don't give into the feelings of, "Oh, he'd be sorry if he knew."
Instead, I tell myself, "He's not worth it, and I don't deserve that. Fuck him!"
You'll feel a lot better about yourself with this method.
   
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Re: He makes me wanna cut.. - August 7th 2011, 02:15 AM

hurting yourself to hurt him is not the way to go.
   
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Re: He makes me wanna cut.. - August 8th 2011, 06:21 PM

Cutting yourself just to prove a point, is not a good idea. That will just make things worse. Cutting is an addiction. And if I were to be completely honest, no one is worth cutting or hurting yourself. the best way to handle this is to let him cool off. After some time, talk to him. Ask him why he cut you out. But for now, you need to try to cope in a healthy way. If you want him to know how much you're hurting, tell him. If he ignores you, then drop it for a while. Bring it up again in a few weeks when stress level has dropped. But honestly, you sound like a great person. you don't deserve to feel pain. If he doesn't want to be your friend, then sucks for him. Hang in there<3


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