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Family Problems (Important) - August 11th 2011, 10:19 AM

I have done so wrong to my parents. I have snucked my bf over the night and my parents found out. They hate me right now. My mom has been pissed at me times before but She never look at me with so much hatred. Its all my fault and she wants me out the house next month, since im turning 21. I feel like some shit because i just wanted to be with my bf, and i didnt care if i was disrespecting them. I deserve what i am getting, but I hope i dont lose my parents in theprocess. I dont know what to do, so pease i need advice on what to do..
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Re: Family Problems (Important) - August 11th 2011, 05:04 PM

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let them no that your really sorry and agree to leaving but you don't want to Lose them you want their support in the desicions you make
tell the how u really feel and let them no that u r really srry and why did u do it
They'll eventually forgive u ur their daughter they could never hate you their just mad
   
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Re: Family Problems (Important) - August 11th 2011, 07:20 PM

I agree with Alena. Make arrangements to move out - you may not have respected their rules before, but now you can show them you are willing to do so, even if it means having to leave their house to prove it. They will probably need some time to cool off, so call them once or twice a week after you've moved out, just to say you love them and are sorry once again. Don't beg to be taken back into their home. Let ALL the focus be on how much you love and respect them, and are sorry that you took advantage of that love and trust.





   
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Re: Family Problems (Important) - August 11th 2011, 07:46 PM

I think that you should make arrangements to move out as well. You're getting older, thus more headbutting with your parents. It might be best to move out. I would explain to them (when they've cooled off) how sorry you are for disrespecting their rules. Tell them that you don't want your relationship to be affected by it. Tell them that you still want to be civil with them and have a good relationship :]


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