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he hit me - September 7th 2011, 10:12 PM

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my dad hasnt hit me in awhile and he hit me yesterday at first i wasnt sure what just happened it scared me i couldnt sleep that whole night and this morning i broke down and cried i havent been hit that hard since my mom left when i was 8 he hit me but not that hard he said i was just a little bitch i started to think i did something wrong to get him mad i had to i wanted to die i dont want my dad to hit me and i have school tomorrow idk what to do anymore i love my dad i been in abusive realationships and been abused by my mom and dad until my dad left but i grown used it but its the things i have to lie about that dont come easy yeah im scared of being hit but i grown used to it i know thats bad but idk what else to do in a year i wont have to deal with it so im trying to stick it out and hope it was just this one time since he hasnt done so i just feel like im in the wrong place im doing something wrong or who to turn to anymore im confused




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Re: he hit me - September 7th 2011, 11:52 PM

Hey there, Coco.

You're right... growing accustomed to abusive relationships isn't a good thing. If you begin to accept this behavior as "normal", then you may settle for abusive relationships in the future. Some people even begin to seek out abusive relationships subconsciously, because they look for traits that remind them of previous relationships (which, in their minds, were "normal" and therefore acceptable).

I strongly encourage you to talk to a school counselor about what's going on at home. Even if you're not ready to move out, notifying the school will prove beneficial if your father ever abuses you again. If it happens again, you can go to the police and have the school demonstrate that there is a pattern of abuse. You could even go to the police now, if you have physical evidence of abuse (ex. a picture you've taken of a bruise/cut left by your father).

You haven't done anything wrong, and you're not alone. I wish you all the best, and feel free to keep us updated on your situation, regardless of whether or not you decide to press charges against your father at this point in time.






   
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Re: he hit me - September 8th 2011, 12:32 AM

It's just my dad is always been there it hard to tell someone when I feel I'm losing my dad in the middle of it I know I should tell but I don't think I can really I feel as if no one will believe mostly when they didn't believe I was depressed it's just I grown up being hit when I done something wring then my first three bf were abusive and I was young I just thought that's what ppl did till I got older and had a realationship with a girl and she didn't hurt ne and I realized reality ppl shouldn't do that Im still confused about it I just feel alone because my sister dosent get hit but she looks more like my dad unlike me I'm more like my mom I always thought that's why he hurt me I just get confused one min he is there holding me next thing I know I'm on the ground hurt and shocked I don't know what to think anymore I'm lost




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Re: he hit me - September 8th 2011, 01:20 AM

I'm so sorry Coco Abusive relationships is never a good thing :/ Although I've never been abused, I know it's not right. I hope you're alright


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