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My promise they try to ruin - September 9th 2011, 05:24 AM

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When I was around 15 the year I quit drugs alcohol I started when I was 10 I made a promise I would never go down the same road as my mom I take it as a really sensitive topic its one of the worst things you cab say to ke is I'm like my mom. I look like her more than my sister and brother but it hurts to know I would be going down that road. My dad and my sister love to remind me this every time I do something wrong. I just break down when I go to sleep I don't wantto be like her at all my dad found away to trigger memories of nights I try so hard to put deep deep in my mind I didn't grow up with a perfect life I had good times but there were mire bad times I hate it my dad showed me proof I had a twin sister she was 5 when she died not going into details but it wasn't natural cause. I feel like I know her she looks fimilar but I was 5 I was young but it's so much I can't take much of all this hurts to much way to much all these memories I can't even hear someone talk about their mom without me wanting to break down and cry I hate my family right now.

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Iím catching stars in the sky because I am fixing the soul within me. May it be from the heart a girl broke years ago or my soul simply repairing itself as it was shattered on my walk on this earth. May the stardust fill those cracks within my soul making me brand new, but never forgetting who I once was.

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Re: My promise they try to ruin - September 10th 2011, 04:54 PM

Coco, I know it hurts for you to hear about your mother, or people saying you're like her. My question for you is, do YOU think you're like your mother? That's what counts. From what I know about you, and what I know about your mother, you're not like her. The thing you need to do is rise above your family. Show them you're not like her. You can't let them get to you. I know it's hard because family can have such a huge influence on our emotions and what not, but if you try and not let it get to you, you might feel better. Seeing as your family does nothing to make sure you're happy, you have to create your own happiness. It's going to be hard, but until you can move out of your house and get away from all that negativity, all you can do is make the best of what you have and try to be happy.

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