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How to deal with my sisters boyfriend. - October 10th 2011, 11:55 PM

My sisters boyfriend is the most obnoxious and rude person I've ever met. He laughs too loud, he talks over people, he eats with his mouth open, he makes inappropriate comments and takes things too far. He bad mouths my family in front of my sister and I and my sister just ignores it or laughs. I cant put up with it anymore! He's so selfish and only cares about himself.

For example, my dad can be hard to tolerate at times but when my sister, her boyfriend and I all go to his house for dinner he says things like.."Oh ya..we have to go to your dads." and "Lets see if we can get out of there quickly." I know how my dad can get but he's still my dad, he's still family and it makes me really sad that he says those things in front of me.

He also makes inappropriate sexual comments towards my sister right in front of me and that makes me feel really uncomfortable. Is it normal to feel this way? I get really grossed out when I here about other peoples sexual lives..especially family. He's just a pig! And hes really ungrateful. Everything is such a "choir" for him when we're not doing something that benefits him.

I dont know what to do, but I can honestly only stand one day of him.
   
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Re: How to deal with my sisters boyfriend. - October 11th 2011, 04:11 AM

I think your best bet would be to share all these concerns with your sister. Since she's the girlfriend, she's in a better position to say, "Hey, can we avoid comments about Dad/sexual stuff when my sister's around?"






   
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