my cousin

[hollyberry]

basically my cousin came up to visit me at uni for the weekends and we went out twice. Both nights she got with someone in the club. the thing is she has a boyfriend, and both times i tried to pull her away from the guy but she wasnt having it. Ive never met her boyfriend but he is a uni far away from where shes at uni, and she says she doesnt really want a relationship at the moment but she feels she cant break up with him because theyve booked a holiday at christmas. I dont really know what to do cause ive never met the guy, but i feel bad that shes cheating on him all the time. I said she should break it off but theres the holiday issue. any advice? thanks

[PSY]

So your cousin is willing to sell herself for a holiday trip? Doesn't really surprise me, since she's cheating on her boyfriend. You can tell a lot about a person based on their actions. Ultimately, it's your call. If your morals push you toward telling the boyfriend about your cousin's infidelity, go for it - but be prepared for the fallout with your cousin, and possibly some other family members. If you want to maintain a decent relationship with your cousin, let things run their course.