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Unhappy my sister is bugging me out... - October 25th 2011, 11:13 AM

my older sister keeps asking me to do stuff that i'm not into and i dont want to say no to her because she's my sister but its really making feel uncomfortable... should i tell my parents or just ignore her..? i'm not sure what to do for the best


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Re: my sister is bugging me out... - October 25th 2011, 12:41 PM

Hey there Luci,

I can understand that you might feel obliged to do these things for her because she's your sister and she's older than you but if you feel uncomfortable doing these things then you have to stand up to her and say no. If you don't do this then she may just start taking advantage of you and asking you to do more and more things.

If she doesn't listen after you've told her no then I'd suggest talking to your parents about the situation but I think it's important that you try to be more assertive and handle this situation on your own for now unless you feel that you're in any danger from this (if this is the case then yes go to your parents first)

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Re: my sister is bugging me out... - October 25th 2011, 11:03 PM

i agree with cara my sister does the same thing and yes she gets mad when i dont do things she wants me to do but she gets over it i dont know what she is asking you to do so it maybe different if you feel uncomfortable just say no and if you feel she will do anything go to your parents




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