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And when the calls stop...then what? - March 23rd 2009, 04:00 AM

Ever since I told my best friend I was in love with him, things have changed. Don't get me wrong, I knew they would. Not only because things would be weird for him, but for me too. He's known I went through my other best friend saying no and some rather rude things, also being led on. He did the same things, but the rude things he said were I don't want another long distance relationship and I still love my ex. Who he hasn't dated in over two years and there was another girl between me and her. So...we use to talk everynight for hours on end. Now...if I get fifteen minutes I'm lucky. And then...out of no where...he just stopped calling. Now, he broke his cellphone and I have a HUGE fear of talking to parents on phones. Also, his dad seems to hate me. So, he has to call me and I know that can get rather annoying, but I can't talk to someone if they hate me. He'll message me on myspace sometimes, but they'll be shirt messages of nothing. Like his last one was telling me his other best friend, who's like a brother to him, went to my work and was mad because I wasn't there. He didn't say sorry for not calling like he promised to do.
I mean, he always screams when my other best friend won't call me because it upsets me, but now he's doing it too. I've told him he was doing it and he lost it on me. Telling me to never compare him to that ass. Expect...more swears. And he's mad because I'm a jealous person. He thinks I don't want him to find someone who he loves, but I do...I just can't be happy right now when he finds that girl. I have no clue what to even tell him or anything anymore.


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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 23rd 2009, 04:47 AM

call him i hate having to constantly call the girl makes me feel like im too clingy
   
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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 23rd 2009, 07:07 AM

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He's my best friend and he knows of my fears. Plus, when you're best friend's parents hate you...they normally don't let you talk to them.


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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 23rd 2009, 09:28 PM

Hi Jessie,

How far away does your friend live? Is there any way you can visit him and talk to him in person? I can understand how awkward phone calls can be- especially with a friend's parents! That's really the worst. But all the same, I think you should still try and give him a call. Just talk to his parents nicely on the phone and they shouldn't have a reason not to let you talk to your friend.

It might also be a good idea, especially if your friend is far away, to start emailing him on a regular basis. There's nothing wrong with being e-pals too, and it means more to get a letter rather than a message on myspace.

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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 23rd 2009, 10:57 PM

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Hi Jessie,

How far away does your friend live? Is there any way you can visit him and talk to him in person? I can understand how awkward phone calls can be- especially with a friend's parents! That's really the worst. But all the same, I think you should still try and give him a call. Just talk to his parents nicely on the phone and they shouldn't have a reason not to let you talk to your friend.

It might also be a good idea, especially if your friend is far away, to start emailing him on a regular basis. There's nothing wrong with being e-pals too, and it means more to get a letter rather than a message on myspace.

Nat.
He lives about 45 minutes away and we see each other less and less since we had this weird problem with love and getting heartbroken...on my end. He ended up calling me, but saying he's been so busy and stuff, which...even when he use to be busy he still called or told me he couldn't call tonight.

I messaged him, that's the only reason he called me anyways.


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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 25th 2009, 10:58 AM

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His parents are reasonable though, they won't just slam the phone down on you.
   
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Re: And when the calls stop...then what? - March 25th 2009, 08:31 PM

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His parents are reasonable though, they won't just slam the phone down on you.
Not really, they wouldn't let him come over because he said God one time.


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