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my friends addicted to bad boy -
November 11th 2011, 02:40 AM
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I have this friend of mine she is a girl. she love bad boy.. with love I really mean.. in love with it........
even the thug on the street(no offense here) she is dating one of the thug now... but because of that she wants to dropped out the college.... she never come in.... she is pretty smart girl.... but the last thing I heard she wants to get married with that thug.. erhmm... the problem is.. she's here only alone.. her parents in another country... and no one care again since she love that thugs soo much.. but the problem.. he is hell lot older than her and he already had a child with his ex... and he didn't care....(this is my true problem..) help me.. what should I do to help her.. (she already have sex with him.... but since we are in eastern... somehow having pre marital sex is a taboo) [COLOR="rgb(72, 209, 204)"]
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November 11th 2011, 03:44 PM
Unfortunately, you can't make her stop seeing this guy. You can't. I'm going to assume she is 20 like you. She is an adult and can make her own decisions. Part of growing up and becoming an adult is falling on your face once in a while. Now, that's not to say that you shouldn't do anything at all. I think you should talk to her. Explain your concerns to her. Tell her why you're concerned and what makes you concerned. To me, age shouldn't be a factor. Nor should him having a kid. But that's up to her. If she is okay with it, then that's what matters. Because being older and having a kid isn't a bad thing. My mom married a man 27 years older than her. And they were happily in love. My thinking is you should try to get to know this guy. See what he's like. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but keep an eye open. Be there for your friend. And express your concerns. If she isn't receptive, then let her live her life. Because telling someone who NOT to date is the fastest way to push someone away.
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