My best friend.

[savealife723]

My best friend got a girlfriend about a month ago, and since then, the only time we ever talk or hang out is in the one class that we have together. I mean, I'm so happy that he found someone that he can be happy with, but I just miss him a lot. We used to talk all the time. We hung out all the time. And now, it's like we only exsist to each other in one class. I've talked to him about it, and he always says that we'll hang out or talk more, but whenever we try to, he always breaks our plans off at the last minute because he's going to hang out with her again.


I'm trying to be understanding, but it's soo hard for me.
I miss him and I want my best friend!
What should I do?

[Xx.Shes.Unbroken.xX]

I had the same problem with my best friend. Except, they were both my best friend. :/ I couldn't really do anything. Except be friends with the both of them and hang out with them both, or go on double dates? You can't really be alone with him, that might make his girlfriend jealous. So, try being friends with them both. Then, you'll be able to hang out with him, again. And, have a new friend.

[Alicia124]

thats a good idea try and make friends with the girlfriend if u get to know her better u can joke and talk to her about it and him to try hanging with the both of them even if u might be the 3rd wheel sometimes try to also respect that they r a couple and sometimes im sure he wants to just be wit her

[Carpe Diem]

If his girlfriend makes him hang out a lot with her it could be that she is a bit controlling... Is this 'not chilling with friends' mutual? or is it all her doing?

[dancefever18]

Talk to him alone. Tell him how you feel. Sometimes when you're in a relationship, you easily forget about other people but that doesn't mean you're not important. It just means that..well their lovestruck, if you call it that. All they think about is that one person. But I would talk to him and try to become friends with his girlfriend.

[leavemealone]

Try to talk to him again, because he needs to see how this is really making you feel. Not a simple "we don't hang out anymore" but a "we need to hang out more" you don't wanna see this friendship ended because he couldn't separate his girlfriend life from a friendship that should mean more to him.

[savealife723]

I've tried talking to him several times about how I wish we hung out more and that I miss being best friends like we used to. He always says that he misses hanging out too, but his girlfriend won't let him hang out with me. She's jealous that we used to be so close, and so she's the one that's not letting him talk to me. I tried confronting her about it, but she clearly doesn't like me at all...

[Chris.]

Unfortunatly there isnt much you can do in this situation.

Since youve talked to him, and nothing has changed, I say that you just move on. Yes hes your best friend, but obviously he moved on without you; so why should you wait until they break up, or have a fight and even then, will he be the way we was before? From my opionion chances are he wont.