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Step-dad really frusterates me - November 23rd 2011, 01:24 AM

It was my first night at a brand new job as a hostess and I don't have a car at the moment so I need either my mom or step-dad to pick me up around 9. So I tell my step-dad that I'll meet him outside where he dropped me off around back. And what does he do? He parks the car without even checking our meeting place..while im sitting there watching him..walks straight in and starts asking around for me. I watch him go from one waitress to another while im trying to get to the front entrance. Finally I get there and he comes and drives me home but all the other waitresses are just looking at me.

I'm o embarrassed. I'm eighteen. Not a little kid and he makes me feel like one when he does things like this. Now they're all going to be thinking he's weird and i'm weird.

I didn't tell him I was upset but I wasn't nice either. That really pissed me off!
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Re: Step-dad really frusterates me - November 23rd 2011, 11:52 AM

I would wait until you are feeling calmed down enough to talk to him, and then tell him why he made you upset. Let him know that you'd appreciate it if he would just wait out front for you.
If this continues, could you ask your mother to pick you up instead?

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Re: Step-dad really frusterates me - November 28th 2011, 09:01 AM

Ahhh, got to love parents and family members <3

I agree with Melody, I think you should talk to him forsure about it, but wait a few days. The next day you work make sure you tell him again about the meeting place, time and everything else; maybe he forgot!

I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think "Yes, I'm exactly who I want to be". To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world...
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