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Thanksgiving help? - November 23rd 2011, 01:22 PM

So, I live with my dad. I can't stand being around my mother because she is immature, a compulsive liar, & never takes responsibility for what she does. I mean, when my grandmother (her mother) was in the hospital, dying, we wentto charelston (where my grandmother was at) & in the middle of the night, instead of being where she was suppose to, she takes me (I'm sixteen) to Kentucky so she could meet up with these guys. She made me go, I didn't want to, & she blamed it on me.
Anywho, point to this story is this; I don't like talking to her, I don't visit her, but she's expects me to come to Thanksgiving Dinner..I really don't want to. If I do I'll be miserable..if I don't she'll start the "why do you hate me? Don't you love me" bull.. Can anyone give an opinion on what I should do? /:
Note: My therapists tells me I'm way more mature than her. That I'm like the mother & she is like the daughter in our relationship.
   
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Re: Thanksgiving help? - November 23rd 2011, 02:49 PM

Its hard when that happens espically when you 16. You really shouldn't have to go because if she makes you feel uncomfortable then it isn't fair to you. I think i would show her though how more mature you are then her. Just go to dinner and if she makes one stupid move then i would leave. But other then that you shouldn't have to.


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Re: Thanksgiving help? - November 23rd 2011, 04:25 PM

Ive been putting up author since I was little. I've took care of my little brother while she went out to the bar, our house got foreclosed on be wise she didn't pay the bills, she is living with her friend because she doesn't want to get a real job, she thinks that working in the photo center in wal mart is a good job, and zoo much more. You honestly couldn't believe the things I've had to put up with because of her. I have (unforunatly) decided to go to dinner..I'm just not happy with it. It goes against my better judgement...& on top of it, I won't have anyone to talk to.
   
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Re: Thanksgiving help? - November 23rd 2011, 04:52 PM

Just bring your music and relax. Also, I would talk to her. Face to face, about this because its really bothering you. You are too young to be put into this position. She has to grow up eventually, and maybe if someone points it out to her, she'll start acting her age. Stay strong!


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Re: Thanksgiving help? - November 23rd 2011, 07:42 PM

I was way ahead of you with the music thing. (:
And I have talked to her..several times, but it never Changes.
   
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