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Worst Uncle Ever (help please) - December 4th 2011, 09:24 PM

i moved to live with my uncle and aunt. my uncle wants me to study everyday. on weekends its 12 hours of study and barly 1 hour of playing. i enjoy playing my grades arnt that bad there 1 A and 5 B, would break my computer and everything else if he catches me using internet without his permission. he always disconnects my internet every time i barly get anytime to do anyhting. he wont listen to reason. todays my birthday and he doesnt care he still makes me study and im really sad. i want to have fun and enjoy my birthday but no im sad and crying. it makes me sad to even think about happiness when he does this. he cant be reasoned with but theres a chance anything that can help ease him down like anything please i like playing games, i like having fun, i would study but not when forced. when im forced to study i cant focus what im doing. i can get shot and he wouldnt really care. he just wants me to get a 4.0+ G.P.A so be canbrag about it to his co workers. fuck him hes really seffish he wount care about me. i came from a bad school to a good school so me getting 1 A and 5 Bs is pretty good from a bad school to a good school. I am taking regular classes no help classes or anyhting. they think im going to be unsucessful in life and gona end up like my dad working in a restruant. i dont mind them saying ima end up working there (im not i got a life ahead of me) but it hurts me when he said my dad. i wanted to yell but then i dont want my computer broken. any thoughts u guys have please let me read it i want to know your thoughts of my uncle. my aunt agrees with me being a gailuar which is really dumb hence bad school transfering to a good school and not failing at that school. my uncle doesnt hit me but he would if i yell back.

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Re: Worst Uncle Ever (help please) - December 4th 2011, 11:31 PM

There isn't much you can do. The only thing that I would do is try to find a happy medium with him. Try to make a deal like:

If I get above ____ GPA, then I am aloud more time for play.

Or something like that. If he still says no and is angry, then maybe you should try to find someone else to live with. I would say go set a meeting with your school counselor - that may help alot and he/she may be able to provide you with advice and how to go about moving somewhere else.

Hope this helped alittle.

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