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Question how do I deal with my mum ? - December 23rd 2011, 11:20 PM

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how do I deal with my mum ? I really dislike her these days. Okay, she thinks everything I do is wrong. I lost two of my bestfriends *a girl stole them away from me... Um, my dad got me an xbox 360 for christmas & he's willing to get me cod blackops, mw3, halo & sims 3. She disagrees, she thinks it's too violent, she wants me to play does stupid dancing games, she wants me to be a girly girl. I'm not like that ! Why can't she accept me for who I am ?! She thinks cod/halo is too violent for me, she thinks that I might grow up & start shooting people. Like are you fucking kidding me ? What kind of mum would say that ?! She lets my brothers do whatever they want. It's really pissing me off ! She compares me to other people. She thinks I deserved it when I lost my bestfriends ! What kind of mum would say that ? I fucking hate her ! She hurts me a lot ! I've been cutting myself since I was 9. I cry myself to sleep. & ye... My dad thinks I should just ignore her. But I can't, it goes in my head, it stays there. It won't help me sleep at all... She wants me to be a girly girl, she wants me to be a model. When I hate those. All of those girly girl things. Why can't she accept me for who I am ? How can I deal with her ? I really don't know what to do... My mum's an asshole.


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Re: how do I deal with my mum ? - December 24th 2011, 12:18 AM

If your mom a "girly girl"? she could be wanting you to follow in her footsteps.

IF shes not, she may regret it and is trying to not let you have those regret.
she may be "happy" you lost your friends because she might not of liked them very much.
As far as the games go, you said you had brothers? She may think that girls and boys shouldnt play the same games.

Its hard to lose friends. and its hard to have a parent that doesnt support you.


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Re: how do I deal with my mum ? - December 24th 2011, 05:07 AM

I would tell your mom that you feel shes being rude and not considerate of your feelings.

I agree with Angela, she wants you to be a girly girl like she was, and she wants you to do certain things, but she needs to realize that you are your own person, and she doesn't control that. Tell her that you understand she is looking out for your best interests, but you don't want to dance, and you don't want to grow up like her - you want to live your own life and make your own mistakes.

I think you need to have a heart to heart with her - I know it will be hard, and it may not work, but atleast try.


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