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An ex close friend is dieing of cancer but seems to be a peodo - March 26th 2009, 03:36 PM

Ok I can't explain it in full detail but i was really close friends with this guy and hes terminally ill and wont live for much longer
Something happened and hes turned out to be a creep
I was always there for him helping him throughout and hes helped me, i found out he likes little boys and hes in his mid 30s, he also started stalking me
Recently we had a fight over it and I'm not longer talking to him because hes creeped me out so much
This friend meant something to me but i cant trust him and I feel awkward being around him
He will die soon and I feel really guilty and almost used
I dont know what to do


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Re: An ex close friend is dieing of cancer but seems to be a peodo - March 26th 2009, 06:39 PM

I think that it's important that you stay away from this person if you are creeped out. He shouldn't have said those things to you or stalked you.

I understand that you were close friends with this guy and care about the fact that he is dying, but just remember that you don't owe him anything. I think a nice thing to do would be to make him a card and send it in to him. That way he knows that you still care. Don't feel obligated to visit.


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Re: An ex close friend is dieing of cancer but seems to be a peodo - March 30th 2009, 11:40 PM

just make sure he knows that you still care, and lus it's not your fault, and it might actually not be his either, there's diseases that aren't physical sometimes their mental and they cause weird ideas and actions, this COULD BE exactly what happed to your friend, but i'm not a doctor so im not sure
   
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Re: An ex close friend is dieing of cancer but seems to be a peodo - March 30th 2009, 11:51 PM

If he lied to you about his age, how do you know he's not lying about this as well?

I would stay away from him, he sounds like a creep and not someone who you want to be talking to.


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