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Angry Family and School - March 26th 2009, 06:40 PM

My family are still saying my dad has bipolar beacuse of me. Family are saying I should die and never see them again. My brother might have to live with us for a week because he has lost his flat. MY grandparents don't care about me beacuse they blame me a lot more then anyone else Also I have been doing self harming which is not good and all the taechers aking me what I have done. I have been talking to helen a councellor about it all I have seen for 2 years but I don't see every week. I dont no wot to do anymore

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Re: Family and School - March 26th 2009, 07:46 PM

Hi Sophie,

I think you should talk to your counselor and see if she is available to see you more often. Let her know the situation and that you need someone to talk to about it regularly. If she can't do this herself, ask her for some other references. I think it's important that you keep up communication with a counselor about this.

As for your teachers asking you questions about SH, you don't need to answer if you don't want to. It's up to you what you tell people. If you think they can get you some help if you tell them what you've done, then I would highly recommend you do so. If you are uncomfortable with this, then maybe talking to your counselor would be easier.

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Re: Family and School - March 26th 2009, 08:41 PM

will they not menage it to my parents about doing self harming.
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Re: Family and School - March 26th 2009, 09:26 PM

It is my understanding that they will only tell your parents if they think you are a danger to yourself.
   
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Re: Family and School - March 27th 2009, 11:17 AM

really ok thats good then Im so fed up with everything. I'm also worried about my freind who is going into hospital for 6 months
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Re: Family and School - March 27th 2009, 01:44 PM

First of all it's unfair for people to blame you for your dad's condition. No matter what they say it isn't your fault. I suggest keep talking to your counsellor and if you can try to stop self harming. There are threads and stickies in the self harm forum about what alternatives you can use try out some of those and see if they help. DOes your counsellor know about your family blaming you? If not then tell her and she can help you through it.


   
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Re: Family and School - March 30th 2009, 11:35 PM

you need to tell your guidance counselor everything! and i do mean EVERYTHING! and she could probably help you, and if she's a really nice and good guidance counselor then she'll definitely help you
   
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Re: Family and School - April 5th 2009, 06:30 PM

well the first thing is you must realize that it is not your fault and i think its horrible that your family would do this to you its not fair. HAve you tried talking to your family, maybe they dont realize how it makes you feel and sometimes people dont realize that there doing it. i think talking to your family would be a good idea and just let everything out and see what they say. also maybe family therapy would be an option for you my family was fighting a couple years ago and family therapy really helped us get through our fights. there are all kinds of people out there all you have to do is ask
   
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