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Advice please... - January 5th 2012, 04:31 AM

I could be wrong, but maybe the reason why I'm such a mess all the time and I cry like a 3 year old is because of all the stress and frustration that my everyday life causes me. Don't get me wrong, I love my family and they love me, but sometimes...it just gets to be too much, if that's even possible. I feel like the people in this house just get too angry too easily, and when I point it out and say calm down, very nicely, they get even angrier. I just cant take it anymore! I cannot have a healthy relationship when nobody is willing to step up and address the problems that are obviously there, but everyone is just too...angry and upset all the time. We all just need to calm down sometimes and take a step back before exploding and leaving me screaming into my pillow.


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Re: Advice please... - January 7th 2012, 02:05 AM

Ive been there too. First off, crying is 100% ok. Crying is 100% ok. Crying is 100% ok - It really is. It doesn't mean you are weak - it means you are letting out your emotions. Some use exercise, others use crying, others use meditation or something similar. The thing is - I wouldn't recommend telling anyone to calm down. That will ONLY make a person angrier - then I know for a FACT. Instead say 'please stop' or just simply listen. But the calm down thing - will not work. I would do a quick google search of 'ways to calm down' - and there should come up alot of tips - and I have used them very often! But I'm also here if you need to talk.

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Re: Advice please... - January 11th 2012, 01:26 AM

Ive been in your shoes and all I can say is just keep trying b4 something. Reaaly bad happens


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Re: Advice please... - January 16th 2012, 04:08 PM

I am going through that right now. My family gets upset over the tinest things that are said and when i say calm down... nicely they get even more pissed off and it's just annoying. I always cry because i am so stressed. To be honest I really don't know what to do either.
   
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