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January 5th 2012, 04:31 AM
I could be wrong, but maybe the reason why I'm such a mess all the time and I cry like a 3 year old is because of all the stress and frustration that my everyday life causes me. Don't get me wrong, I love my family and they love me, but sometimes...it just gets to be too much, if that's even possible. I feel like the people in this house just get too angry too easily, and when I point it out and say calm down, very nicely, they get even angrier. I just cant take it anymore! I cannot have a healthy relationship when nobody is willing to step up and address the problems that are obviously there, but everyone is just too...angry and upset all the time. We all just need to calm down sometimes and take a step back before exploding and leaving me screaming into my pillow.
When someone apologizes enough times for something they'll never stop doing I think its fearless to stop believing them. I think its fearless to say "Your NOT sorry" and walk away.
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January 7th 2012, 02:05 AM
Ive been there too. First off, crying is 100% ok. Crying is 100% ok. Crying is 100% ok - It really is. It doesn't mean you are weak - it means you are letting out your emotions. Some use exercise, others use crying, others use meditation or something similar. The thing is - I wouldn't recommend telling anyone to calm down. That will ONLY make a person angrier - then I know for a FACT. Instead say 'please stop' or just simply listen. But the calm down thing - will not work. I would do a quick google search of 'ways to calm down' - and there should come up alot of tips - and I have used them very often! But I'm also here if you need to talk.
I hope that everything improves. Best wishes, Chris Chris Jackson
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January 16th 2012, 04:08 PM
I am going through that right now. My family gets upset over the tinest things that are said and when i say calm down... nicely they get even more pissed off and it's just annoying. I always cry because i am so stressed. To be honest I really don't know what to do either.
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