Friends Fighting.

[Squidgy]

Okay, two of my best friends are fighting, and I'm in the middle. A couple days ago I was talking to my friends Louise and Emily, everything was alright until Hodder came over. (Hodder is one of my best friends) So he comes over and looks at me and Emily and asks us why we're being so "bitchy" lately. I honestly started laughing because I thought he was joking, But he was dead serious. The rest of that day Hodder wouldn't talk to us. (He spent the whole lunch hour in the bathroom crying ) Finally after school he talked to me and I said I'm done with the drama, blahblah, and we made up. But Emily refuses to talk to him. We were all supposed to go to the mall but we can't do that now. Emily just doesn't want to be friends with Hodder anymore. I feel like I'm in fourth grade with this shit, It all seems quite immature to me.
Anyways I just need advice on what to do. I don't have many friends as is, I don't need to lose the ones I have over immature drama.
Thank you in advance.

[Chris.]

I'm Sorry to hear about this. The thing is - you cant change the way others feel about each other or what they want to do. The only thing that I can recommend is that you talk to Emily and tell her you don't want to lose her - and you think that everyone needs to be friends again. Ask her why she doesn't want to be this persons friend? There has to be a reason - and chances are she will say 'Because I dont' or 'because he/she causes drama'. If she says because I don't then tell her thats not an answer. She needs to have reason or then shes just being a 10 year old with a grudge. If she says because they cause drama - then tell her that hodder agreed to stop the drama and just wants everything back to normal.

Thats all you can do - and if Emily still doesn't want to interact with Hodder - then you cant do anything else but be friends with Emily, and Hodder, but deal with them not hanging out with eachother.




Best wishes,
Chris