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Should I let him go - January 13th 2012, 07:37 AM

It's my best friend and I have known him forever but lately he has been hanging out with a particular group of people who I don't like so I told him hey I know you think I'm friends with them but I'm not because I think that they are all white trash and yes I know that was rude of me to say but he went and told the chick that and she started all this huge drama trying to get me like suspended from school so I told her mess with me and get in my face and I will kick your a$$ without any hesitation at all well my best friend talks trash about this certain group to and he was being a major hypocrite by telling me how bad of a person I was for not liking them and being rude and I go well no youre rude to the. Too so I wouldn't be talking and we got into this huge argument which led to me yelling because I am an explosive person so a few hours later I call to apologize and he has the girl who was in my face pick up the phone and say hello this blah and I was like... So I hung up and sent him a text saying sorry and then he goes on again telling me how much of a shitty friend I am when I have taken home everywhere I drive him using my truck which he has his own and I pay for his food and my parents have taken him places but ever since hyenas started doing weed and drinking with these people he has changed and wants me to change so I can hang out with them I don't know if I should confront him or just cut hi. Out of my life and hang out with some of my better friends
   
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Re: Should I let him go - January 13th 2012, 08:51 AM

I would talk to him and see if you can work it out with him. He shouldn't be pressuring you to do anything you don't want. If you 2 cant reach an agreement to stay friends then yes you should break the friendship off. You don't need to be dealing with all of this.
   
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Re: Should I let him go - January 14th 2012, 03:24 AM

Well unfortunately we all lose friends, and we all change over time. It seems that this friend still wants to be apart of your life - but feels like you betrayed him and was rude. I do have to agree - there really was no need to say white trash or anything like that, nor should anyone be telling someone else who and who not to hangout/be friends with.

However, since this is all said and done, I would talk to him and see if you can get a happy medium (without risking your morals and what you want to do). If he doesn't put effort into anything involving you and still is mad at you - then you are much better off moving on and being with your other friends.




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