Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Moving out at 16, but not sure how, what do I do?

[cyndii]

OK so I'm 16 (turning 17 in April) and I live with my dad, who recently started a habit of putting me down and bringing up situations that he thinks I've done wrong in. I would move in with my other side of the family but it's only worse there, and they all disowned me.
My dad tells me that I have a "fucked up way of looking at things" and that my "morals are as fucked up as me". I cant express how I feel verbally to him cause I'm scared he'll do something stupid, or he'll react in a way that will make me do something stupid.
My dad recently found out I had a boyfriend who is currently 20 years old and in finding out he has locked me up so I can't see him. He's taken all forms of communication (phone, facebook, msn, etc...) and says that I'm in the wrong.
He's been treating me like I'm worthless and mean nothing to him, I hardly see him anymore and when I do see him he pushes me away. I want to move out cause of his actions but i dont know how I'm supposed to if I can't talk to him about it and I can't just leave cause I hve no way out.
I don't know what to do and I'm afraid if I stay any longer I'm going to do something even stupider than cutting my wrists, smoking, drinking and punching walls. I need help

[AmazonQueen]

I'm sorry you're stuck in this situation. I think you need to talk to your school Councillor or contact family and child services if his actions are putting you in danger. Your councillor can help you get in contact and will have more information about what you can do about this situation. Just stay strong there is always a way out.

[dreamer1234]

Talk to your school, they take that stuff very seriously. They will help you out in anyway possible.

[cyndii]

Thanks, I will definately talk to them when I get back. Hopefully they can do something...

[FlyingTrue]

That constitutes false imprisonment and abuse. He has no right to treat you that way. Definitely report this to a school counselor or police officer.

[cyndii]

Oh WOW, I didnt know that! Thanks, I will definately talk to my school and I will look up my legal rights.

[Risewiththefallen]

Thats terrible. Stand up to him. tell him like it is. make your statement loud and clear.

[cyndii]

That's alot easier said then done. When I do try to tell him how it is and stand up for myself I get a massive guilt trip cause "it's all my fault to begin with"...

[FlyingTrue]

Yes that is exactly how emotional abuse works.

[cyndii]

I know I moved to my dads to get away rom it only to get it worse.....