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i NEED to get out. - March 29th 2009, 05:36 PM

i feel so depressed when i'm around this family!!!
if i'm anywhere were my family arnt i'm the happyest person alive!
wich is why i am feeling depressed atm. i'm at home and i can't stop crying. all because mum spat back at me when i toldd her i felt ill "its all the fags u've smoked" something as little as that upsetts me because i have put up with this s***ty family for years!
my mate offered to let me stay at hers for a couple of days and it would be ideal because she is 2 minutes down the road so i can easily catch the bus on the morning. but thing is mum wont let me leave the house at this time. if i try and explain to her she will laugh. the only thing i can do is start a full on argument and storm out but then she might not let me back in the house again.
i'm so stuck! i just need a few nights away. i know i have slept out the past 2 nights but thats because it was a weekend and now its a school night.
urghhh if i dont get out im gonna do something stupid


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Re: i NEED to get out. - March 29th 2009, 08:23 PM

Hi Sophie,

I think you need to take a while to yourself. Just stay in your room for now and find something to do that will keep your mind occupied and off of how your family is making you feel. Do your best to think of other things when talking to your mom. She's probably still just frustrated about the smoking still. Maybe she thinks making you feel bad about it will make you stop. She may be saying those things because she really wants you to stop.

I understand that you want to get away right now, but keep in mind that there are other ways to get away. Stay in a different room or go for a walk. Maybe you can stay over at your friend's house tomorrow night instead? If there's a chance to ask when your mom is in a better mood, I'd suggest that.

I'm sorry things are going so badly right now for you. Just try to hold in there. PM me if you want to talk.

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Re: i NEED to get out. - April 5th 2009, 08:55 PM

hey hun,
i think you need to take time for yourself like nat said go get a pedicure or a manicure or go out with friends and do what ever it takes to get your mind off of it that will help tremendously i no hope this works for you
   
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