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need to get this out... :( - March 31st 2009, 02:30 AM

You're cutting and depression scared me to death...it still scares me. But perhaps what scared me the most is that I never noticed when I should have. The image of you in the bathroom with blood running down your arm is what I see EVERY time I walk upstairs. I worry about you all the time and Im scared that it will all happen again. Not a day goes by that I don't worry about you. I love you sooo much and it killed me to see you like that. When I was gone for those twelve days on that trip I worried constantly I was right. Things were shitty for you. All those times I talked t you on the phone while I was there I lied I wasn't having a good time. In case you didn't notice I was crying on the other end. (It would kill me to tell you this but I cut now)
   
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Re: need to get this out... :( - March 31st 2009, 02:46 AM

Hi there,

I'm really glad you were able to get this out. Keeping it inside wont do you any good, and talking about these things can really help to cope and think things through.

First of all, this person is really lucky to have you to care about her like you do. You're a really great friend for phoning her up and seeing how she's doing and trying to make her feel better.

I think you should take some time to go through things for yourself as well. You are just as important as this person no matter how many times you would put them before yourself. You deserve to be happy too- even when you need to leave people behind when you go on vacation. Trust that they want you to be happy, just like you want them to be happy. Be there for the people you care about, but be there for yourself too.

Also, you should probably read through some Alternatives to Self Harm. They might help you cope with your feelings and get out some of this emotion without causing harm to you. Keeping a journal might be a good idea. You could also suggest some of these to this person you care about as well.

Stay strong and be safe.
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Re: need to get this out... :( - March 31st 2009, 01:21 PM

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Firstly, i find it really nice of you to be so concerned of your brother . You're clearly a nice individual to care so much proves that you're very passionate and you care a lot for other people, which are qualities that make a very nice person and makes people special

and you know, it might be wise to stop cutting.. this is because you have to be your brother's source of strength. You have to call him and keep telling him that you're always going to be there for him The first and most important thing of overcoming this is the knowledge that there's always someone to listen to and help when one's feeling down take care of that.. and your brother will soon be okay

and you know, in case you need any support, remember that we're always here, and so are the rest of everyone who cares for you

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Re: need to get this out... :( - April 5th 2009, 06:45 PM

aw sweetie im so glad that you were able to get this out venting about things that your mad about help you alot. maybe you should see a counselor and talk about how your feeling and they could really help you. there is alot of people out there to help you just have to ask and they will help you pm me anytime id be more than happy to listen!
   
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Re: need to get this out... :( - April 6th 2009, 10:41 PM

thnx you guys. It really helped to just be able to get this out without having any repercussions come out of it. But as for the counselor I don't think that's the right thing for me right now. I don't really talk about my feelings well and ya...living in a small town stuff like that seems to get spread around pretty fast.

Enough of my rambling though. I just wanted to say thanks, I really appreciate your replies =)
   
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Re: need to get this out... :( - April 7th 2009, 10:14 AM

becca, dont mention it we want to help because we care!

and you know, i still think you have to tell someone having someone to listen, helps. find someone you trust and you know is caring, of course.


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