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I'm a horrible person - March 27th 2012, 02:49 AM

I really really hurt this guy i like, i mislead him and lied to him....ive apologized and apologized and he said that its no big deal, but when we talk i feel so guilty and sometimes i feel like he doesnt wanna talk to me....not that i blame him.....im so confused...help?

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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 27th 2012, 05:18 AM

we need more info, what are you feeling guilty about exactly? it's hard to help without knowing whats going on.


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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 27th 2012, 10:58 AM

Seeing as I don't know what the situation is, it's hard to say exactly what you should do but from what you've said if you've apologised and he has accepted your apology and said it's okay then I'd say it was okay but if he is acting like it's still bothering him or whatever than maybe talk to him about it, ask him if it really is okay, if there is anything you can do to make it okay. Other than that, all I can suggest that you try and forget about it, I know it's easier said that done sometimes especially if you're feeling guilty about something but there really isn't much more you can do, unless of course he says there is.
   
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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 27th 2012, 04:08 PM

Hey, everybody makes mistakes. I'm sure you didn't mean to mislead him, and if you've apologized then there really isn't much more you can do. If you still think something's wrong with him, even though he's said it's no big deal, than maybe ask him- it might be personal, and nothing to do with what you did

Be careful not to overwhelm him. Just let him know you're always there if he wants to talk. He'll talk in his own time, if he wants.

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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 27th 2012, 04:35 PM

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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 29th 2012, 08:08 AM

First of all I want to say that you're not horrible. Just like Laura said, everybody makes mistakes and you're one of the brave people who's willing to admit your fault and apologize. That's something. Many people don't even bother to apologize after they hurt others.

Now, since you've apologized to him and he told you that it's not a big deal I think you shouldn't be worrying too much. And somehow after what had happened between the two of you (I don't know how bad it was), you can't expect him to just talk to you as if nothing happened or as much as before. You see, sometimes for some people, things that happen in their life could be a life-changing experience. Give him sometimes to heal and recover.

I don't know how close you are to him but if you're close enough to know that he's actually still hurting even after you apologized, then the best thing is just to talk to him once more about this. Ask him whether there's anything you can do to make him feel better. After all, you're the one who knows him.

I hope everything turns out well with the two of you. Good luck.


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Re: I'm a horrible person - March 29th 2012, 05:58 PM

i still feel like a horrible person, i can't believe i hurt him.....it makes me want to cry everytime i see him....i think im just going to get out of his life for good....i havent been very good for him, he'll be better off if i leave him alone
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Re: I'm a horrible person - April 1st 2012, 09:44 AM

If you like being with him then you should keep talking to him. Don't be afraid to talk to him every now and again - you have apologized for your mistake and now it will simply take time for things between you and him to get better. It will eventually as long as you keep engaging with him.
   
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