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Unhappy I Feel Awakerd :( - April 6th 2012, 05:16 PM

Hi All

So We Recently Moved To New House , New Everything

And Then I Moved To A New School , New People

I Thought It Would Be A Good Thing

Meeting New People

But I Was Wrong

Since I Moved To This School

And I Dont Have A Single Friend

No One

Tried To Talk To Classmates

But I Feel Like No One Taking Me Seriously

I Used To Be Very Talkative

I Used To Have Very Friends

But Now I Am Very Very Very Very Lonely

Can SomeOne Help Me With This ?! :/
   
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Re: I Feel Awakerd :( - April 6th 2012, 06:00 PM

I wouldn't rush into things. Let people get used to you being around. But do let them know you are there. Get to know others a little more. That way you know to where you belong with these people. Just keep trying, but always be yourself. A friend is bound to come around. Try talking to teachers for a little help. They might offer some suggestions or give you a little backround of the place where you are at.


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Re: I Feel Awakerd :( - April 7th 2012, 03:00 PM

"MrOnline Offline" lol

Anyways, find someone similar to you. Even if you do not remain their friend, it could be a good spark. Also take the initiative, join them inbetween class. Just don't over do it by talking to them ALL the time, cuz you don't wanna scare them away lol

When I first moved I ended up first talking to people who weren't very popular and then slowly getting other friends (that were more and more popular) but that's a risky thing to do. But those people can be awesome as well, so it's your choice! : )
That's not my first choice for you but if you are really running out of ideas.
   
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Re: I Feel Awakerd :( - April 7th 2012, 03:51 PM

I think that the key to finding friends is getting to know people with the same interests as you. When you approach them you will have something to talk about and hopefully the conversation will last longer than a simple "Hey, I'm new." So, my suggestion would be to maybe join some clubs or groups at school that pertain to your interests. Assuming that you are in high school, there are a lot of different things you can join in order to get to know more people. You can also try and meet people outside of school by getting involved in extra curricular activities and such. Other than that, I think you just need to give it time. You can't expect to make friends right away, it's something that takes time and patience. Just stay optimistic Good luck!





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Re: I Feel Awakerd :( - April 8th 2012, 12:05 AM

Making friends takes time. You cant expect to have a group of friends within a few days (or sometimes weeks/months). You also cant give up! At this point, keep talking to classmates. Join groups, clubs, sports, or volunteer after school, or get a part time job and build friendship with co-workers. The point is, there are alot of places you can gain friends, and build up friendships; however I think you are only using one place: school. You need to put yourself out there more. Don't throw yourself at them, instead start being more simple. Say Hi, and then the next day add more to the conversation. Don't expect people to have a 10 minute conversation with someone they don't know.

Building friendships is a trial and error process. It sucks, but it is rewarding aswell. It takes time, effort, and in some cases tears - but in the end it is worth it. So don't force the process. Just let it be and take things slow.



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Re: I Feel Awakerd :( - April 12th 2012, 04:02 AM

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