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Friends... - April 11th 2012, 09:41 PM

My friends never invite me to hang out. They are always too busy hanging out with each other and not me. I mean this about every single friend I have. What should I do? I feel so left out. I tried talking to them and telling them how I feel, but they say they are always busy. Now I find out that three of them are going to hang out today! Do they hate me?


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Re: Friends... - April 12th 2012, 03:33 AM

I would try to talk to them again, and try to let them understand you are upset about this - and if after that, they are still excluding you, then you need to find better friends. Yes, its easier said than done, but if they are excluding you, and not accepting or in improving on what you told them, then you definitely don't want friends like that - nor do you deserve to have friends treat you like that. Even if they do start including you on things, I would still try to build up other friendships. This way there, if you get excluded for a few nights, then you have other friends you can hangout with! You can never have to many friends! So, communicate, and if that fails, move on, and then build new friendships. We all lose friends - so don't try to prevent what may or may not happen because it will hurt worse if you do. Just let things play out - and adapt accordingly.



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Re: Friends... - April 12th 2012, 09:07 AM

Thanks. New friends wouldn't be a bad idea. I just don't like most of the kids where I live and where I go to school. But moving on might be my only option if they don't take me seriously when I say I feel left out. I'll give it another try.


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Re: Friends... - April 12th 2012, 05:34 PM

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Thanks. New friends wouldn't be a bad idea. I just don't like most of the kids where I live and where I go to school. But moving on might be my only option if they don't take me seriously when I say I feel left out. I'll give it another try.
Hi Rachel, I'm sorry for what happened to you and yes, sometimes as you grow up, you'll find that other peers might be better to befriend than your old peers. It was like that for me every time I had my transitions from primary school to junior high, senior high and eventually college and now work place. I rarely hang out with my college best friends right now. Just don't let this matter brings you down. Cheer up! You'll find other friends. Hope everything is all well with you now, dear


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Re: Friends... - April 12th 2012, 06:30 PM

Thanks yeah I left my elementary friends. These are my midddle school friends. But I'll be going to the High school in September. I'm sure I'll make plenty of new friends.


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