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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Exclamation bring her back :cry: - April 7th 2009, 05:25 PM

nan i love you so s much

i just wanted to let people know if i seem a bitch etc to people right now i really dont meran it i just lost my nan lastnight and today i went to say my final goodbye just seing her lying there blue and cold all alone i freaked out i ran away and cryed i couldent do it i went to ther roof of the hospitL and watched the cars bikes and emergancy services go by like nothing has happend then someone came and touched me on the sholder it was the scurety gard with my phyc we all sat down and spoke they tryed to make me laugh as thry were talking i moved further and further away from the edge thery wete telling me my nan wouldent want this so i finally came out of the transe like state io was in and went back and sat with her my phyc stayed with me then they had to take her away i hated it i just want to see her again i asked them to stop
and let me have 10 mins on my own with her to talk about stuff i broke down in tears layed on her chest clutching her hand annd said let me be with you nan thats all i remember then i found myself on a bed with an oxygen mask on my face my phyc holding my hand there for me shes gave me her number so i can call whenever i need to i cant bleave shes gone i was going to go asee her yesterday but she said sher had a headach but did i know that would be the last time i spoke to her R.I.P NAN LOVE YOU ALWAYS
   
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Re: bring her back :cry: - April 7th 2009, 05:31 PM

Hiya Hunny 365

Im so sorry for your loss, you know your nan will always be with you, her soul will be looking down at you & protecting you. Its ok to cry & feel pain.

Everybody dies & its horrible & I dont wish death on anyone. But your Nan has gone to a better place, she is your guardian angel & will always be with you.

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Re: bring her back :cry: - April 9th 2009, 11:21 PM

it is hard i know
but she will live on in your heart
and she can now be with you every day
looking down from you from up there
willing you on, giving strenghth and advice
she will want you to be happy
stay strong xox



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Re: bring her back :cry: - April 9th 2009, 11:54 PM

I am so very sorry about your loss. I can see you were very close with your Nan and that she was a wonderful, wonderful person. Try to remember her as she was alive and warm and happy! That must have been a terrible shock seeing her like that. But please never lose sight of the great things, the happy things about her! I'm so glad you had people there with you to help you in such a terrible, devastating time.

It may feel like the world is moving on while something so tragic has happened. But the world has lost a great being and we are here for you! She would want you to be happy and live a long and wonderful life! It's always the hardest at first, but you deserve to keep the great memories with you as you walk through life and thrive.

You are not alone! If you ever need to talk, I am here and you can send a message my way anytime.
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Re: bring her back :cry: - April 10th 2009, 02:47 AM

I am very sorry for your loss. I know how you feel... i lost my nan before i was even born and my other 3 grandparents within a year of eachother a couple of years back. I was unable to attend my fathers side nan and grandads funeral =( and was very upset to hear that some discrepancies went on during my grandads funeral that i will never forget. But i did manage to gain courage along with my sister to attend my remaining grandfathers funeral and i was so happy about how nice and smooth the day was/went! Every now and then i remember all the memories i have with/of them and that they're out there somewhere keeping a close eye =) Stay stong!! It'll all be fine ,
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Re: bring her back :cry: - April 10th 2009, 09:46 AM

hey.

i feel bad that this happened... no one deserves to lose anyone. But there's somethings i'm going to say:

your nan NEVER left you truly. Have you ever heard of this saying, the saying that those we love and cherish NEVER truly leave us. Your nan will always be watching over you, guarding your heart, guarding your soul. Your nan will want you to live to the fullest, and you should.

Stay strong for the nan, she would be happy to see you happy. And you know, i'm sure she's up there watching from high above with a smile.

your nan will , always, ALWAYS love you

and that fact wont change even if the sky falls down


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