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Angry R.I.P Nanny Julie - April 10th 2013, 04:11 PM

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hi so as the title suggests my nan has passed away. i feel numb and just spaced out i havent cried much as i dont feel i can and i dont want to put pressure on myself saying i have to cry or that i should. i feel lost and empty m nan and me were best frinds she was always there for me and she died in front of me.She had tounge and throat cancer and she has lost control of her body in the last 2/3 days and i helped with that to, i cant belive she is gone and dont know what to do now we were sat talking at her home (i was living with her) i didnt know what to do as when she died i cried and since i have been ok and havent cried at all, although i have been very quick tempered and as i said just empty dont know what to do now any advice accepted thank you x
   
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Re: R.I.P Nanny Julie - April 10th 2013, 04:17 PM

It wasn't your fault, if you're thinking that. I sorry that you had to go through this. You'll be in my prayers. Sorry about lack of advice, this isn't really my area....
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Re: R.I.P Nanny Julie - April 10th 2013, 04:20 PM

yes it does feel like i should have done more but i couldnt have,she went so fast and she was there talking and laughing with me and then was gone
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Re: R.I.P Nanny Julie - April 10th 2013, 07:45 PM

First off, I am very sorry for your loss. I cant imagine how you are feeling right now. I don't have much advice to offer, however if you feel the grieving of this loss is taking over your life, then seek help. I also want to say that if you ever need anything (talk, and/or vent), everyone, including me, at TeenHelp is here for you, and here to help.

Stay strong.


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