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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 03:37 AM

Just found out my friend and classmate was murdered today...cant believe it...he was aways so happy and friendly. He didn't deserve to die! :"(


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Re: my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 04:04 AM

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your friend. No one deserves to be die (by being murdered, etc) and it's even more an absolute tragedy when it's a young person that loses their life.

Thoughts and prayers being sent to all those affected.


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Re: my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 04:06 AM

Hey Jacob,

I just wanted you to know that you're not alone. One of my classmates was murdered last year. Remember that this isn't your fault, okay? Try to remember the good times you had but also take time to grieve. I'm sure it's all a shock right now and I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss. I will be thinking about you and your friend Keep fighting, Jacob. Remember, my inbox is always open for you.


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Re: my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 05:02 AM

Jacob, I know how hard it is to lose a friend that way, almost two years ago I lost a friend that way she had went missing and her remains were found. I know it's not easy, but just keep hope that one day that person, or persons will be caught and the justice will be served.

Be strong, and remember that they would want you to be happy, and living life to its fullest.
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Re: my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 12:18 PM

Jacob, I am sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing a friend, and especially not to murder. I've had friends who died in accidents or due to illnesses, but they were never killed. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you right now. Stay strong, though, because that's what your friend would have wanted you to do.
   
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Re: my friend :"( - September 1st 2013, 01:06 PM

I'm really sorry about your friend Jacob, it can be extremely hard to lose someone who we once knew and especially if we had an attachment to them, even as a friend. If you feel that the death of your friend may be hard to cope with, speak to someone such as a grief counsellor as they can help you to work through how you may come to feel through the process of your grief. Don't go through grieving alone, at least have someone whether it be a friend or a member of your family.


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Re: my friend :"( - September 2nd 2013, 02:01 AM

I am so sorry to hear about what happened! Your friend definitely didn't deserve to have this happen, and the person who did it will be brought for justice. Know that your friend is now watching down on you, smiling. Remember the good times but allow yourself the time to grieve as well. Reach out for support, because you can get through this.


   
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