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Angry R.I.P little man - March 26th 2014, 12:04 AM

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My cousin's girlfriend had two gorgeous twins last night, a boy and a girl.
However, I've just been told the little boy didn't make it, he died early this morning, all the family are heartbroken and I know what its like to lose a baby so I am trying to be there for them. I'm devastated I never got the chance to meet him, he would have been my great cousin.
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Re: R.I.P little man - March 26th 2014, 07:42 PM

Awe, I'm very very sorry for your loss. However I do not know what it's like to lose a baby, I can only imagine..I'll be praying for you and your family.
Y'all will for sure be in my prayers for awhile. I don't know what else to say..becuz I know whatever the hell I say isn't going to make it better...but again I am truly sorry.

R.I.P lil guy.

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Re: R.I.P little man - March 27th 2014, 09:43 PM

Hi there, Michaela.

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone family-related (despite how long you've known them) is a very hard thing to do. However I'm glad to see that you're supporting your cousin and his girlfriend through this process. They may not say it, but I'm sure they appreciate the support/guidance.

I will keep all those effected by this incident in my thoughts.

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Re: R.I.P little man - March 29th 2014, 07:28 PM

That's terrible, I'm so sorry to hear. Keeping the family in my prayers.

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Re: R.I.P little man - April 3rd 2014, 06:03 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this. It must be really horrible to lose their child. I'll keep them in my prayers as well.
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Re: R.I.P little man - April 9th 2014, 10:58 PM

Thanks guys.
I'm trying to be there for them as much as I can, it brings back memories of when I lost Rosalie in December but I want to be there for therm as much as I can and I know exactly what they are going through. I really am devastated for therm just as they had been for me when I had list my baby. Sometimes though I feel like I am not doing enough for them even though they keep saying I am. They said I am being very supportive and understanding but that's what family and friends are all about.

I wouldn't let anyone help me through the ordeal of losing Rosalie and I don't wasn't them to suffer the way I did without the support I needed. I have told them I will always be here for them and now they are focusing on their little girl who survived.
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