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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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28 week still birth. - April 10th 2014, 01:01 PM

bad new, we were pregnant with our first child, a little girl she was so precious, her name was Bayleigh may, she passed away on the night of the 5th of april , she was a still born born at 28 weeks, she weighed 560gs ;((((( im heart broken she was soo tiny.
im planning a funeral for my daughter and im not even 18


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Re: 28 week still birth. - April 10th 2014, 01:51 PM

I am very sorry for your loss. My older sister lost her baby at 25 weeks. She is still struggling. Everything happens for some reason. You may not see that reason right now but hopefully you will soon. Do not blame yourself. Okay? If you ever need anyone to talk to. Please message me! Again, I am very sorry for you loss...
   
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Re: 28 week still birth. - April 10th 2014, 01:54 PM

Omg i am so sorry. I wish it wouldn't have happened.
   
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Re: 28 week still birth. - April 10th 2014, 08:59 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.
There are some wonderful people here who have gone through the same thing, and I am sure they will have some great words for you.

All I can say is to plan this funeral, and make it something to special to your hearts like she was. Grieve and cry, and talk to him about whats going on. My cousin went through this, and it was hard on her. Communication is good for the both of you right now.
Take care of each other, and be there for each other. Remember you have family in heaven that will take care of her, just like they were there own. You will see her again.

I hope everything in your life gets better. Remember its okay to cry.
   
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Re: 28 week still birth. - April 12th 2014, 09:57 PM

Hey, there.

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I don't know exactly how you're feeling, but I do know the horrible impact that something like this can have. My sister did lose two children during her pregnancies, and it has taken a toll on the whole family. We don't always understand or can comprehend why things happen, and that is sometimes the worst part of situations like this. But the best thing to do in these types of situations is to celebrate what you did have, do what you need to do, seek help, grieve, and push on. While this may be one of the hardest situation you've ever experienced in your life, you can't stop here. You can't give up.

Push on, and keep your head up. Things will get better (though it may seem like they won't).


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