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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Unhappy Is this ever going to end? - February 15th 2015, 03:24 AM

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I just found out that a friend of mine not only killed his entire family, but committed suicide. I don't know what to think, or how to react. I just feel so physically ill. I keep throwing up, and I'm burning up. It's like all of the bad news I could ever get just kinda get's thrown at me at once, and this was the icing on the cake. How are you even supposed to cope with something like this? How are you even supposed to deal. My only fucking friend in real life, and now he's dead. And this isn't the first time this has happened to me either. It's like this is a really bad joke that everyone is in on but me.

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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 15th 2015, 03:47 AM

There's no manual on how to cope with things like this. I honestly don't know...but stay strong. My PM box is always open and I'll be on here for a while this evening anyway.
   
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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 15th 2015, 04:31 AM

Thank you.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 15th 2015, 04:46 PM

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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 15th 2015, 04:58 PM

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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 16th 2015, 01:33 AM

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Things like this can be so devastating, so life changing. Have you talked to anyone about how you're feeling? You mentioned that you don't think you can do this alone- you don't have to. I think finding a counselor would be the best option, but anyone you trust is a good place to start reaching out for help. If you are in some type of school, you might want to check out some of the resources they offer. Let me know if you need someone to talk to.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 16th 2015, 01:52 AM

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss.
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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 16th 2015, 03:18 AM

I'm sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how painful this is for you. It's normal to feel shocked like this after losing someone. Like it was mentioned above, reaching out to others is something you could do if you're comfortable enough as it will help to talk about it. In the meantime, take it easy and take care of yourself.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 16th 2015, 03:20 AM

Thank you guys.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 22nd 2015, 11:02 PM

I am sorry for your loss. It is extremely disturbing to hear that your friend killed himself and his entire family. I would recommend that you talk to someone about the situation. It is perfectly natural to be upset. It is hard to take in the fact that someone you knew would do this. You should talk to someone about this, and try to get advice. Good luck
   
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Re: Is this ever going to end? - February 22nd 2015, 11:16 PM

Thank you.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - March 3rd 2015, 12:11 AM

My friend committed suicide last year and its her anniversary on the 12th of this month. I'm struggling to deal with it and I don't have magic words to offer, but if you want a chat or anything, feel free to PM me. Just stay strong and hang in there. I know its hard now but apparently it gets easier and I hope the best for you.


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Re: Is this ever going to end? - March 3rd 2015, 04:06 AM

Thank you.


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