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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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France-Anne and Daniel - May 31st 2009, 05:35 AM

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France-Anne.

She was my 15 year old friend.. had everything going for her, she was always doing what she loved, and died because of it... On May 26th, she fell off her horse and was kicked in the head.. later died in hospital.. her parents donated her organs..

Daniel.

My best friend.. 18years old.. suicide.. I miss him soo much, I talked to him like 5 mins before he did it.. I was the one who found him, its just soo hard.. Passed away May 27th




Honestly I can't take anymore deaths right now.. I'm losing my sanity..



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Re: France-Anne and Daniel - June 2nd 2009, 04:12 AM

Brittany, I'm very sorry for your losts.
Having a friend die is hard, I can't imagine whats it like to have two friends die so close to each other. I had a friend that died unexpected he was 17 he died in a car accident. Remember they are now in a better place happily. My heart goes out to you. Feel free to pm me anytime.


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Re: France-Anne and Daniel - June 2nd 2009, 01:39 PM

hey hun.... i'm so sorry you've to go through all that.... i really want to go over and hug you right now and let you know that you can cry all you want till you feel better... *hugs*
it's really hard to go through all these, but remember that their deaths are not your fault and life is too unpredictable. remember all the good memories you had with them, and know that they'll live in those memories. (:
they'd wish you were well.. and i know it..
let yourself grieve and talk to people about it...
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Re: France-Anne and Daniel - June 8th 2009, 02:02 AM

Hey there, Brittany.

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friends, France-Anne and Daniel. It sounds like both of them meant a lot to you.

Losing anyone is difficult, but I think loosing a young person can be especially difficult. In our ideal world, teens don't pass away; our friends are meant to grow old with us, and when we are left without them it can feel impossible to cope.

Both of these losses are incredibly tragic. Try to find peace in the fact that France-Anne's last moment were spent doing something she loved. Hold on to her memory, Brittany, and remember her for the good things she brought to your life.

Losing a loved one to suicide is shocking and painful. I'm so, so sorry that you were the one to find him; I cannot imagine how difficult that was, and is, for you. Although it cannot bring him back, know that at least nothing can hurt him anymore. Daniel is finally at peace.

You cannot make new memories with your friends, but the memories you have are yours to keep forever; nothing can take those from you, Brittany. I wish you luck and hope you take care of yourself. Don't be afraid to reach out and lean on your loved ones. Let me know if you need anything.



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